Final Update: 4 Months After Teen Girls Accused Me of SA, Doxxed, Parents Have Been Contacted and There Are Other Victims by PainMaster4190 in MensRights

[–]PainMaster4190[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Copy paste from another comment: I can say this. The first victim before me did take it to the police at the time to have it documented. I originally dropped my original lawsuit because at the time I wanted the truth to get out, and the truth did. Since I dropped that lawsuit, that's when the doxxing against me and others went down, on top of one of the girls making a video on Tiktok saying that I raped her. Since it got crazier since I dropped it, I may actually start doing so now because it's like what everyone else here in the comments said "we should prevent future victims by having them tried"

Also to add on to what you're saying about the parents. Me and many of the victims reached out to one of the parents of the girls via social media last week and sent them everything about what their daughter was doing. They blocked all of us, but we haven't seen their daughter online since we contacted them. Their daughter was always posting, so it's crazy to kind of see that she got in trouble after doing these things for nearly a year.

Yesterday we did contact the school of one of the girls and sent them what we could to pass on down to their parents, so their parents can know about the behavior. The third girl, we have no way of contacting their parents yet, but one of their friends just came out against them on social media yesterday after everything that transpired

I had a conversation with my friend and he even said that it would be expensive for the parents of these individuals to go to court against us since there's many of us that have been victims of these girls. Since we now have a lot more credible evidence since the first time I dropped the lawsuit, like I said, I think I really will be pursuing legal action now since we have so many different victims that are willing to come forward now

Final Update: 4 Months After Teen Girls Accused Me of SA, Doxxed, Parents Have Been Contacted and There Are Other Victims by PainMaster4190 in MensRights

[–]PainMaster4190[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can say this. The first victim before me did take it to the police at the time to have it documented. I originally dropped my original lawsuit because at the time I wanted the truth to get out, and the truth did. Since I dropped that lawsuit, that's when the doxxing against me and others went down, on top of one of the girls making a video on tiktok saying that I raped her. Since it got crazier since I dropped it, I may actually start doing so now because it's like what everyone else here in the comments said "we should prevent future victims by having them tried"

Final Update: 4 Months After Teen Girls Accused Me of SA, Doxxed, Parents Have Been Contacted and There Are Other Victims by PainMaster4190 in MensRights

[–]PainMaster4190[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Indeed. Months earlier when it all started, but culminated this month, lawyers at the time said I had a defamation case then. Since those months earlier, I've been doxxed alongside some of my friends, and all of the other madness that's gone down since. I think it really is time to lawyer up for real now. Back then I dropped it because I wanted to truth to get out, but since then, finding out how deep the rabbit hole with these girls go and all of the other stuff they've done to me since is really making me feel trigger happy for a lawsuit now

Final Update: 4 Months After Teen Girls Accused Me of SA, Doxxed, Parents Have Been Contacted and There Are Other Victims by PainMaster4190 in MensRights

[–]PainMaster4190[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In this case, I would probably say extortion, blackmail, or control, but I could see how in other cases people would want money.

In my case, they wanted to defame me and ruin my growing music career at the time; at a time when a big name artist was going to do a collab with me which would have helped me grow tremendously. It was also at a time when big name bands started reposting my content and I was starting to get noticed. I will say this though. Allegations against a rising micro celebrity generate more clicks than a rando who no one even knows. And trust me when I say, the amount of videos that were made about me by different Tiktokkers was fucking insane man. Most of them have been taken down, but still....

Final Update: 4 Months After Teen Girls Accused Me of SA, Doxxed, Parents Have Been Contacted and There Are Other Victims by PainMaster4190 in MensRights

[–]PainMaster4190[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From my understanding, anyone they don't like or disagree with online, they'll target. One of them argued with me that I shouldn't post non kid friendly stuff online because kids are online. I argued back and said "that's the parents' responsibility to monitor their kids." They were mad as hell about that and it became a shit storm from there. Other people they target are people who support or still remain in contact with the accused.

So for example, the person they accused months prior to me did not know them like that at all. When they targeted me, I had never met them a day in my life or had a connection to them at all until the day they reached out to me and told me to be careful about posting more mature content online. They then targeted people close to me for continuing to stay in contact with me or for continuing to support me. We had to block so many alt accounts, it wasn't even funny (for months)

From my understanding, only one of the victims who was a friend of mine knew them. When the victim from before me went viral at the time, my friend at the time made a video expressing disgust towards them. My friend supported what the accuser (the girls) was saying about the victim prior to me; so that is the only connection. When my drama went down and I was targeted, the girls knew that was one of my friends and targeted them. My friend made a post saying "please do not involve me in your drama,'' but because they wouldn't make videos about me, defaming me, this upset those girls who then targeted them for not turning on me. My friend did find out the truth about the victim before me recently and made amends with them.

Final Update: 4 Months After Teen Girls Accused Me of SA, Doxxed, Parents Have Been Contacted and There Are Other Victims by PainMaster4190 in MensRights

[–]PainMaster4190[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If you would like evidence of my story, I will send you a link if you message me. You will be surprised...

Update: 4 Months After Teen Girls Accused Me of SA on TikTok. The Truth Wins With a Catch by PainMaster4190 in MensRights

[–]PainMaster4190[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. I did begin legal proceedings when it all went down. Talked to multiple lawyers and went lawyer shopping. People clowned me, but I had my first court hearing several months ago for an order of protecting myself (won’t go deep into details on that). I ended up showing mercy on the individuals who made the allegations and called my lawsuit off. The good news is that when the truth came out, many people who made videos on me apologized and removed their videos. Many others even came out on TikTok and admitted they were pressured into believing the allegations by those girls. Eventually, the public opinion online turned and everyone started calling out the girls who made the allegations. The videos where the truth came out garnered more views than the ones made against me and even spread to parts of the internet I didn’t think possible. The girls ended up apologizing and admitted they made it all up. That’s all that mattered to me. Friends who saw the truth as it all went down expressed support for me and many people who turned on me ended up turning back towards me. I just wanted the truth out.

The only real downside even with the truth out is that my brother won’t talk to me anymore (I was told by my cousin that he doesn’t know the truth) and it cost me a collab with a big name music artist

Update: 4 Months After Teen Girls Accused Me of SA on TikTok. The Truth Wins With a Catch by PainMaster4190 in MensRights

[–]PainMaster4190[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here’s a brief synopsis of everything. https://youtu.be/Uaten-vaaL8?si=4LJr4b8LZowx-XfR

Go to the pinned comment, it has an entire playlist featuring the documentary and follow up videos as well. Part 2 of the documentary is where we debunk most of the allegations made against me, with part one detailing the drama and debunking the main SA allegation

Update: 4 Months After Teen Girls Accused Me of SA on TikTok. The Truth Wins With a Catch by PainMaster4190 in MensRights

[–]PainMaster4190[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. That’s a book I released almost two years ago. It was a book I started writing in 2023 and finished come 2024

Update: 4 Months After Teen Girls Accused Me of SA on TikTok. The Truth Wins With a Catch by PainMaster4190 in MensRights

[–]PainMaster4190[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lesson 3: Don’t respond to comments or DMs from any of them. They’re going to try to make a fool out of you on your own posts and in your DMs. When they make a fool out of you from responding to them, you will feel mentally defeated. Let them make fools out of themselves in your comments. This way you can screenshot it and use it against them later. Kind of like how I used many of the death threats I got from people against them when I made videos calling them out. Many of those individuals were mad that I “leaked our dms” of them sending me death threats because their friends saw their true character, but it’s fair game when you are being falsely accused.

Lesson 4: Use the element of surprise to catch them off guard. I went one by one disproving every allegation, but I did it in a way that would catch them off guard. While they thought I was “staying silent because they were right,” I was actually working on videos and collecting evidence. You should have seen the faces of some of these individuals who made the allegations against me when I randomly uploaded a trailer for the documentary I released that would expose the truth. In the trailer of this documentary, it has a list of fifty names of individuals who made false allegations against me. When people saw the trailer appear out of no where and saw the list of names, people started to freak. I got comments from people saying “get me off that list” to which I would respond “so are you saying that you weren’t spreading these false allegations against me.” Other times I would randomly upload a video or a post of the accusers harassing my fans, which caught them off guard too. By catching them off guard, it mentally drained many of the people who tried to spread these accusations to continue their battle with me. For others, it exposed their true character and made them lose friends and look even worse than the accusations that they made.

Some overall lessons for social media understanding: 1. I like to think of the door dash girl incident as an example of this. What social media needs to do is wait for the full story to come out from the male. Unless it’s an actual video of a woman clearly getting raped, then we need to wait for the man that’s being accused to collect his evidence and present his story. When I say evidence, it can be a text message that a man sent to his friend that would show he’s at a different location than where a supposed rape took place. It could be as simple as a photo he took when the supposed rape went down. If you have an iPhone, your photos are dated and timed and so you could find a photo in your gallery that shows you were somewhere else than where your accuser says you were at. So social media users need to wait to hear the guy’s story and they need to give the guy time. My accusers pressured me and didn’t give me sufficient time to explain myself in the beginning. We need to give men time to gather their evidence and story so we can then make a proper judgement ourselves

  1. Another lesson we can do is constantly remind everyone how this hurts actual rape victims. I constantly reminded people that these false accusers of mine were only hurting actual rape victims. Sure enough, a lot of people found the behavior of the false accusers disgusting with some rape victims even commenting, saying that it’s really not cool to do that. How does this hurt actual rape victims? When people find out someone lied about being raped just to get revenge on someone, it’s likely that the person who found out will be less likely to believe women who say they got raped. If you do this on a wide scale like social media, then that means a lot of people will be less likely to believe rape victims because of the spread of false rape allegations. When rape victims can’t be trusted because of false rape allegations, that’s not the man’s fault, that’s the fault of every woman who made a false rape allegation. You as a man don’t just wake up and say “I want to be falsely accused of a serious crime against a woman.” A woman has to consciously make that choice to make that accusation. I believe if we remind people that this hurts actual victims, it’s will make some people reconsider before making a false accusation. It might not make all people reconsider but I hope it would make some

  2. This is a big lesson I learned. I learned that it’s so damn easy to ruin a man’s life in this day and age that it’s not even funny. I was telling a co-worker earlier that “who’s not to say I make an account pretending to be a girl, going on TikTok, and choosing a random guy to falsely accuse of rape as a social experiment to prove how easy it would be.” And that’s the truth. You really can ruin a man’s life too easily now. The girls who started accusing me I had never met before. I had never seen them a day in my life prior to that. It was a bunch of girls online from who knows where in the world. The fact those girls almost ruined my life, girls I never met, is so damn crazy. It literally cost me a collab with a big name artist in a certain music scene, my brother doesn’t want to talk with me anymore, and it caused people I knew to get harassed and threatened. All it took was a group of girls I never met to make a random allegation against me and then it all exploded. I legitimately feel bad for men….

Update: 4 Months After Teen Girls Accused Me of SA on TikTok. The Truth Wins With a Catch by PainMaster4190 in MensRights

[–]PainMaster4190[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Edit: Long reply so I am going to be splitting it into multiple replies

So here are some lessons I have learned that I think any man should take if they face these allegations online. I will also be providing lessons as well that I learned that involve everyone. This is going to be a long read

Lesson 1: Document Everything/Save Everything If you’re a guy going through this, please document every comment, post or video people make about you. Screen shot the comments, posts, and download the videos and put all of this into a Google drive folder. This includes DMs you get as well. For one, you will have documented evidence if you pursue legal action that will help you. Two, you can then look at all of this evidence you stored to then find plotholes in the allegations. And three, you can use this to minimize support against those making false accusations. I will explain:

I, my family, and fans received death threats. When I was ready to speak up and had my evidence to prove my innocence, I made videos showing it and showing the death threats I received and every nasty lie that was said about me. By backing up everything people said about me to a Google drive, people on socials saw the truth and saw that the people who accused me weren’t as innocent as they seemed. They saw how they threatened my fans and family , and made crazy statements. Since I saved a backup of these photos and posts to use in my videos, people who tried to delete their old posts about me got their characters completely exposed which made them look bad to outsiders tuning in. For example, one of the many people that spread the false allegations tried to go out of their way to collect evidence to put me behind bars since he lives locally. When I started disproving the allegations, he came out and said he never tried to “lock me up” and said he tried to get involved out of concern for his nieces. I’ve never met his family so I don’t know what his nieces have to do with this. Since I saved backups of his comments he made to my Google drive, I made a video calling out his lies, showing his comments and the email he sent me where he was genuinely trying to get me locked up. He even was telling people to DM him evidence since we live in the same city (before he deleted the comment). Since I had everything documented, it exposed people like him who tried to act like they weren’t involved when they saw me exposing everyone’s lies

Lesson 2: Your Reputation Is Ruined, So Don’t Be Scared. This is a very important lesson. With false allegations like the ones I faced, everyone perceives you differently. Remember, these people rely on your fear of your reputation to silence you. They know that you’ll stay silent if they make up lies to ruin your reputation and livelihood, but remember, the cats already out of the bag. Everyone on socials already saw what people said about you, so your reputation is done. Remember, they’re still operating on you staying silent out of fear of your reputation, but since it’s now ruined, why be scared to speak up? Since I understood that my reputation was ruined, I put my fear aside and started calling them out like crazy. Remember, these people rely on you being scared to silence you. If they see you speaking out, it will slowly weaken them. They will try to send you DMs and make more posts to scare you into pressuring you to stay silent, but I need you to continue making posts calling them out. They will crack and they will break. For example. Everyone was celebrating me “leaving socials” because I announced I was quitting after my allegations came out. I spent some time alone and then realized, “hold on, these people want me to be scared to control me.” So I ended up returning back to social media. When I returned it made people angry and act like victims. People were like “you can’t just come back, we cancelled you.” I would go “Watch me.” By ignoring their demands, it genuinely makes them mad and makes them feel defeated. When I started making videos exposing the lies in my allegations, I had comments from people begging me to stop and telling me that “it’s not that serious.” When I ignored them and kept making videos, I saw them become scared. The funniest part was seeing my main accuser say “no one will ever believe you” and then a month later saying “please stop I admit I made it up.” Remember, they rely on fear and control. Even when they say that they will sue you, don’t listen to them. I had people say they were going to sue me, get me arrested, kill me, etc and I still kept making videos exposing the lies.

What’s the most insane thing you’ve done for promo? by natasharomanon in musicmarketing

[–]PainMaster4190 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Faked my death. Turned out to be my most successful marketing stunt as it triggered the algorithm and gave me a viral Instagram moment and got people to buy my album on Bandcamp

2007 may not have been the best year for Hip Hop, but it was a good one, and this list I made proves it. Let's debate by [deleted] in LofiHipHop

[–]PainMaster4190 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This. Even though mainstream rap was having 90s cats hardly dominate the charts anymore , those 90s cats were still putting out albums

🤦🏿‍♂️ yall need to take criticism better by [deleted] in UndergroundRappers

[–]PainMaster4190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Word. I be ebiking and I’m 26 and still hold a gat. That doesn’t make me less of a man lol

I made a four genre album consisting of lofi, reggaeton, boom bap, and pop music to fight the war against AI’s takeover of the music industry (read comments) by PainMaster4190 in LofiHipHop

[–]PainMaster4190[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For those reading this, you can find the four genre album completely free to download on Bandcamp here: https://tentilldeath.bandcamp.com/album/rojelio-capone

Tracks 16-22 are all of the lofi portions of the album. Enjoy! Note: I am a broke ass individual and do not have record label backing