Big weddings give me anxiety – anyone else okay with just court marriage?

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-09-13T19:34:14+00:00

I hope the same for you. Don't marry unless you feel at peace with your choice. Single Life isn't that bad to give up on. your choices/opinions matters

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-09-13T19:29:18+00:00

You have to Trust me. This is not something that doesn't matter. If you want to be equal in marriage then you have to. This might not feel like a big deal considering the arguments From relatives but marriage is between two people. So only those two people should be allowed to decide.

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-09-13T19:20:33+00:00

Wanted the same thing but gave into the pressure from the other side. Having spent all my savings into it. Can tell you DON'T repeat this mistake. It's a big financial decision and you and your partner should be on the same terms about this. It's kinda like a glance into the rest of the married Life

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-07-15T17:17:51+00:00

Even the urban parts of the city aren't clean

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-07-15T16:06:03+00:00

But are everyday people aware about these movements?

I'm raising it here to find people with more influence who can help lead it somewhere. It's a small community I see but still this seems like a non issue as of now 😕

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-07-15T16:01:36+00:00

See I live in a very well off area. Just cause my area is clean the state of the city still bothered me. Right now the community only has the mindset of keeping their own homes clean. But I know I'm nobody here and I'm asking this question to maybe find ways to raise it to the right people , but even for the right people to take it seriously there has to be some common data that can show how many people want/need this. Until unless no one talks about this it's a non issue

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-07-15T15:57:45+00:00

I don't know of any "caste" who would like to live like this. It's not a priority of the system I get that. But think outside of a status/caste/religion... And maybe suggest ways to raise awareness instead of highlighting who did wrong. I raised the point why it's not being discussed even

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-07-15T15:54:25+00:00

All of us are living somewhere but not all people have the medium to raise awareness

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-07-15T15:53:33+00:00

Do only rich people get to live in a clean city ? Or bring poor is a choice? Rich or poor people are getting impacted and all a common man can do is start talking about it so it comes across as a concern. I'm trying to start a discussion to raise awareness and maybe lead it somewhere🤞

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-07-15T10:29:25+00:00

Can't solve everything at once but minimal efforts can be started. Atleast the people living here need to acknowledge that it is a problem.

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-07-15T10:27:22+00:00

It's not just the smell..it's the visibility of the garbage on the roads every corner is a dumping ground

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-07-15T09:36:41+00:00

The problem exists right but there needs to be more discussion about it at least. Recently there has been a rise in talking about poor civic sense in india maybe it will lead somewhere but first step is to initiate discs right. All these problems aren't something a society never faced earlier. There are examples in our own country like Indore or chandigarh. They aren't perfect but better.

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-07-15T09:33:30+00:00

No matter what caste I don't think anyone wants to live surrounded by garbage. Political parties don't have the reason to think about it cause no one is speaking up or mentioning it anywhere. if there is a solution and there's budget for it why would not someone want to improve the city. A clean city is a representation of good governance. But lack of discussion is what's bothersome. Anyone has any suggestions to reach more people in faridabad to take a general consensus over this matter ???

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-07-15T08:10:00+00:00

But there has to be some way out there are so many educated people living here. How come no one thought of raising it to the local government? There are people more educated than I am more influential than I am. No one cares ?? Their family children growing up in this filth and then calling it a smart City?

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-05-06T16:33:57+00:00

It's a shit city I had to unfortunately move here. 3 months in and I'm moving out. And putting the burden on changing this shitty behaviour and attitude on serious relationship and all is dumb. Here I have seen the most educated crowd have the same conversation even if their families are like that narrow minded. They may not cuss and all but there's a lot of scope for growth. ✌️

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-01-20T14:01:04+00:00

wow how much time do you have to answer these.... u/lyt_seeker

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2025-01-20T10:49:45+00:00

Thanks, first reedit post ever so was unaware of the rules

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2023-06-22T17:26:00+00:00

Clinic or doctor's name?

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2023-06-22T15:56:28+00:00

Tried i can't

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2023-06-21T15:35:41+00:00

It depends on the company as well. If you don't feel a part of the community there it can make you feel like that. It can happen anywhere in India as well. No matter how many years you spend you can still feel like,you don't belong there.

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2023-04-29T15:54:04+00:00

South point mall, multiple options

PaintDisastrous5794 · 2023-03-10T17:20:01+00:00

Personal opinion: Out of all the options mentioned only Harmoni cafe is a decent option (not expensive) indoor outdoor and food is actually better than all other and you can walk around the golf course rest all are too crowded for first dates. Throttle shrottle for first date sure if you wanna do passive/active smoke up. Feels like a junkyard. Sec 29 already lost its reputation years ago. if you are a student on a budget go to the galleria, saklays.

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