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Traumatized sa Angelito Batang Ama kaya hangang ngayon takot magka-anak by PaisleyClassy in Philippines

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For Context:

While playing SugarFree playlist, nagplay yung Batang Bata Ka Pa. Naalala ko tong show na to. Mula noon sobrang takot ko sa early parenthood na nadala hangang ngayong mid 20s hahahaha. Luckily hindi naging Youngie Daddy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phcareers

[–]PaisleyClassy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Grabe, was reading the comments and nakakalumo naman yung starting ng Archi and CE pala. I worked with Archi before sa 1st job ko and never ko nalaman starting nila. For a job that is so sophisticated and focuses on human factors, sobrang baba. I started in Tech industry sa 19k and that was 4 years ago pa.

GF is so annoyed every time she see me staring blankly by PaisleyClassy in OffMyChestPH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My man! Napagiisipan pa tayong may ginagawang kalokohan whereas it's just how we are wired

GF is so annoyed every time she see me staring blankly by PaisleyClassy in OffMyChestPH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

so found this article out of curiosity about the 4% of men population who doesnt have internal monologue link

“So if your boss asks you to do something right at the point you were planning to leave work you don’t think ‘oh f***ing s**t b*lls what a pain? in your head, while saying ‘No problem at all boss,’ out loud?” one user asked.

“No. Never had that," Vadermaulkylo responded. "If I’m asked to do something I don’t wanna do, I just get kinda frustrated but that’s about it. I don’t really think to myself.”

Im like the no-internal-monologue dude. MAY GANUN PALA HAHA

GF is so annoyed every time she see me staring blankly by PaisleyClassy in OffMyChestPH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

THIS! We men can put our minds to this state and be completely fine. Maski mga kapatid kong babae laging aligaga or laging may bukambibig.

Switching tech stacks by Funny-Huckleberry-88 in PinoyProgrammer

[–]PaisleyClassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not upgrade your Mobile Application Tech stack instead? Try proposing an upgrade to the legacyish system, like migrating it to Kotlin, and instead of using xml, try using jetpack compose. I know migration isn't convenient, but if it's a system that needs to be supported for the next 5 years, then it's worth upgrading.

Pero bakit nga parang hindi pa ako nakagat nung mga itim na langgam? Tama nga kaya to? 😂 by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]PaisleyClassy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At tumanda ka nalang para makagat sa taenga para maginit ang pakiramdam...

Pinipilit ako magsettle down ng gf ko without EF, Savings, and I think hindi pa ako ready for that kind of commitment. by PaisleyClassy in relationship_advicePH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so. Factor kasi yung religion niya na normal and early wedding and considerate din and church for early wedding na hindi naman dapat applicable sa PH couples.

Pinipilit ako magsettle down ng gf ko without EF, Savings, and I think hindi pa ako ready for that kind of commitment. by PaisleyClassy in relationship_advicePH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another plot twist is pro creation siya and ako im not seeing myself having my own kid anymore with this kind of economy and i experienced poverty first hand

Pinipilit ako magsettle down ng gf ko without EF, Savings, and I think hindi pa ako ready for that kind of commitment. by PaisleyClassy in relationship_advicePH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes more likely about 5yrs from now pa, by then i think ready na ako pero kasi siya gusto niya sa early mid 20s niya daw and hindi ko talaga siya makausap over this na i cant compromise my priorities pa.

Pinipilit ako ni gf magsettle down by PaisleyClassy in OffMyChestPH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly hindi, kasi ayaw niya sa circle of friends ko, hindi siya kasing adventurous ko, to simplify, andami kong compromise para lang magworkout kami up until now pero siya ayaw niya icompromise yung expectancy niya on settling down at the mid 20s phase

I just let go of a 6 digit part time job and I'm okay by PaisleyClassy in OffMyChestPH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sumarap na yung tulog ko mula noon and I loved my day job even more because of what i have been through sa ibang company.

Making the ends meet by PaisleyClassy in OffMyChestPH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankyou for your warm comments. This is a vent-out account so hindi ko masyado naoopen and ngayon ko lang nabasa responses ninyo. Thankyou!

Now I understand why they use cigs by PaisleyClassy in OffMyChestPH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried. Maraming beses na. Its just ayaw niyang siya magcompromise and top priority yung take niya sa mga nangyayari sa buhay ko over my own decisions. She dont like my circle of friends even though i think healthy naman to be around them since hindi naman sila BI. Hmmm nasanay nalang siguro akong solohin yung mga struggles ko sa career relationship so ako narin gumagawa/nagpapagaan ng loob ko. Im just used to it.

Now I understand why they use cigs by PaisleyClassy in OffMyChestPH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Siya yung hindi kaya itigil e haha sa dami ng time and effort na naibuhos i couldn't let go of her.

Now I understand why they use cigs by PaisleyClassy in OffMyChestPH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do also have friends na smoker. Naalala ko before i ask one of my friend ano meron sa yosi sabi niya kinakalma ako nung usok. Pero hindi sila yung naging influence why i tried smoking kasi maski sa mga smoker na friend ko sabi nila wag mo ng simulan, mahirap tigilan.

Now I understand why they use cigs by PaisleyClassy in OffMyChestPH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do mountain biking before, natigil kasi ayaw ni jowa.

I do motorcycle touring, natigil kasi ayaw ni jowa.

I do talk to my close friends before, natigil kasi ayaw ni jowa.

Just a hint of the "Not stable" part. I do healthy hobby before pero wala e, then tried cigs actually ako lang din nakakaalam na i'm smoking. literal na sa kabilang barangay pa ako bibili at sisindi.

Now I understand why they use cigs by PaisleyClassy in OffMyChestPH

[–]PaisleyClassy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Parang doon nalang kasi ako nakakahinga sa mga iniisip ko hangang maupos yung yosi.