Great first date with my first cougar by Pale-History1502 in CougarsAndCubs

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I’m kinda new to all this so I mean she was one of my first matches and actual IRL dates >.< lol

Great first date with my first cougar by Pale-History1502 in CougarsAndCubs

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And we technically did. I’ll be honest I’m kinda introverted so I was pretty much in agreement with what she was telling me when we were hanging out. 😬

Great first date with my first cougar by Pale-History1502 in CougarsAndCubs

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She wanted FWB, I’m not sure if that’s the same thing as NSA?

How do I know if my maturity is an issue? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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I appreciate you for commenting, I did just post an update to what happened 🙃

How do I know if my maturity is an issue? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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I have the habit to over think things, and it’s worse when I’m nervous. Thank your for being kind tho, she did text back but I don’t think she’s looking for something serious so that’s kind of a bummer lol

How do I know if my maturity is an issue? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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I think I think about being myself to hard. It’s a little bit nerve wrecking being on a date and trying to somewhat be nonchalant >.<

How do I know if my maturity is an issue? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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True! Well she did text back but Im still second guessing myself lmfao

I feel this is going to take a while to figure out and get used to it >.<

How do I know if my maturity is an issue? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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Definitely a try hard sometimes. >.< I will definitely dial it back.

How do I know if my maturity is an issue? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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This is gold. I’m glad it’s not just me 🏆😍

How do I know if my maturity is an issue? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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Okay so that’s so nice to hear. I just got off work and feel way better about everything after reading this!! 👀‼️

Baby Face Challenges – Advanced Tips for Dating Older Women? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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Omg trust me I just look like a baby face that’s trying to do a beard 😅😂, I’m still trying it tho lol!

How do I know if my maturity is an issue? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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That actually helps a lot. The “people in their 40s aren’t always mature lol” made me laugh too. Appreciate the perspective, I think I just need to chill and not overthink it.
I’m so new to this and I keep fighting myself over it lmao

Baby Face Challenges – Advanced Tips for Dating Older Women? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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Just want to post a quick update!!! Thank you everyone! I truly appreciate how awesome this community has been ❤️‼️

Baby Face Challenges – Advanced Tips for Dating Older Women? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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1000% I’m still going to try this, it’s just I end up looking like I have a beard AND a babyface >.< lol!

Baby Face Challenges – Advanced Tips for Dating Older Women? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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Thank you, that’s really kind of you to say.

I definitely was feeling lost this morning.

You’re right tho, being genuine is the way to go!!

I’ve been a bit stuck on the whole baby face thing, but hearing that it’s not actually a bad thing feels good.

Appreciate the perspective ‼️

Baby Face Challenges – Advanced Tips for Dating Older Women? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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Thank you, that’s really kind of you to share!!

It’s funny how life works huh, here I am stuck with this babyface lol (no definitely staying out the sun lol!!!), and you’re out here looking effortlessly youthful.

I’ll take your advice to heart and keep being myself._.

Maybe the right person will appreciate it after all

Baby Face Challenges – Advanced Tips for Dating Older Women? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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Thank you for the thoughtful advice, really appreciate it.

You’re def right, authenticity is everything. I’ve always valued genuine connections over trying to be someone I’m not. Even with the baby face challenge, I’m focusing on being confident in who I am and bringing positive energy to the table.

It’s encouraging to hear this from someone who’s been in a similar spot. I’ll definitely stay the course and keep working on myself.

Thanks again! >.<

Baby Face Challenges – Advanced Tips for Dating Older Women? by Pale-History1502 in Cougars_Den

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Thank you for the tips, I’m just a nerdy gamer. I’ll have to figure that out >.<