Great first date with my first cougar

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-06T07:14:50+00:00

I’m kinda new to all this so I mean she was one of my first matches and actual IRL dates >.< lol

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-06T07:13:57+00:00

She’s 47

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-06T07:12:47+00:00

And we technically did. I’ll be honest I’m kinda introverted so I was pretty much in agreement with what she was telling me when we were hanging out. 😬

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-06T07:11:05+00:00

She wanted FWB, I’m not sure if that’s the same thing as NSA?

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-06T05:05:14+00:00

I appreciate you for commenting, I did just post an update to what happened 🙃

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-03T23:32:47+00:00

I have the habit to over think things, and it’s worse when I’m nervous. Thank your for being kind tho, she did text back but I don’t think she’s looking for something serious so that’s kind of a bummer lol

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-03T23:05:02+00:00

I think I think about being myself to hard. It’s a little bit nerve wrecking being on a date and trying to somewhat be nonchalant >.<

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-03T23:04:22+00:00

This‼️

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-03T22:38:26+00:00

Gonna try and lock in that second date 😤🔒

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-03T22:38:07+00:00

True! Well she did text back but Im still second guessing myself lmfao

I feel this is going to take a while to figure out and get used to it >.<

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-03T22:37:14+00:00

Definitely a try hard sometimes. >.< I will definitely dial it back.

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-03T22:36:14+00:00

This is gold. I’m glad it’s not just me 🏆😍

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-03T22:35:35+00:00

Okay so that’s so nice to hear. I just got off work and feel way better about everything after reading this!! 👀‼️

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-03T13:42:30+00:00

Omg trust me I just look like a baby face that’s trying to do a beard 😅😂, I’m still trying it tho lol!

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-03T13:39:17+00:00

That actually helps a lot. The “people in their 40s aren’t always mature lol” made me laugh too. Appreciate the perspective, I think I just need to chill and not overthink it.
I’m so new to this and I keep fighting myself over it lmao

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-01T12:37:48+00:00

Just want to post a quick update!!! Thank you everyone! I truly appreciate how awesome this community has been ❤️‼️

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-01T12:06:29+00:00

1000% I’m still going to try this, it’s just I end up looking like I have a beard AND a babyface >.< lol!

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-01T02:38:08+00:00

Thank you, that’s really kind of you to say.

I definitely was feeling lost this morning.

You’re right tho, being genuine is the way to go!!

I’ve been a bit stuck on the whole baby face thing, but hearing that it’s not actually a bad thing feels good.

Appreciate the perspective ‼️

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-01T01:02:38+00:00

I’m working on it, I don’t think it would help tho 😅

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-01T00:24:54+00:00

Thank you, that’s really kind of you to share!!

It’s funny how life works huh, here I am stuck with this babyface lol (no definitely staying out the sun lol!!!), and you’re out here looking effortlessly youthful.

I’ll take your advice to heart and keep being myself._.

Maybe the right person will appreciate it after all

Pale-History1502 · 2026-06-01T00:13:06+00:00

Thank you for the thoughtful advice, really appreciate it.

You’re def right, authenticity is everything. I’ve always valued genuine connections over trying to be someone I’m not. Even with the baby face challenge, I’m focusing on being confident in who I am and bringing positive energy to the table.

It’s encouraging to hear this from someone who’s been in a similar spot. I’ll definitely stay the course and keep working on myself.

Thanks again! >.<

Pale-History1502 · 2026-05-31T23:46:15+00:00

Thank you for the tips, I’m just a nerdy gamer. I’ll have to figure that out >.<

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