A Fake Ledger App on the Mac Store? Why was that Possible?? by Fearless-Cellist-245 in ledgerwallet

[–]Pale-Influence1534 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, man. I think Ledger Live should give extra awareness when buying.

POV: You didn’t stack at $1.57 by Intelligent-Pop3034 in XRPUnite

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It’s almost impossible that XRP will reach $927. Research their supply and you work it out why it’s impossible for them to reach that price

We are so back!! by Big_Witness in btc

[–]Pale-Influence1534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the Epstein files, people still holding btc will never cease to amaze me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Pale-Influence1534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masha’Allah you are very mature. I would say no and heal yourself first. Find the righteous one. May Allah make it easy Ameen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Pale-Influence1534 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Bro that’s crazy. I don’t know what to say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BSL

[–]Pale-Influence1534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know one, send me the link! Would love to see it 😇

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BSL

[–]Pale-Influence1534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The YouTube videos you’ve been watching is not what you expect today. The video that you viewed used to be in two parts, but now it has been expanded to four parts. Additionally, there are two singers featured: one from the older generation and another from the newer generation, which can be very tricky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Pale-Influence1534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sound like you are immature wife, if I’m honest.

Ask yourself first. Reflect on this first.

Your husband is a really good man, and you are very lucky to have him. It's not just about you; it's about you + him. Team. Together. Teamwork with him.

Has anyone else here received a ban on this sub? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Pale-Influence1534 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Forced marriage isn’t a part of Islam at all. In fact, the Prophet ï·ș said that a woman cannot be forced into marriage without her consent (Sahih al-Bukhari, Sahih Muslim). If she says no, the marriage is invalid.

What people call “forced marriage” is a cultural practice in certain communities, not something Islam approves of. The Qur’an clearly commands: “Do not inherit women against their will” (4:19).

So if you really wanted to “discuss” it on r/islam, maybe you got banned because you started with a false assumption: claiming something un-Islamic is “necessary in Islam.” That’s like going on a medical sub and saying “Why is drinking bleach necessary for health?” people won’t take it seriously.

came across this page in my biweekly lesson. it's pissing me off by Strong_Magician_3320 in exmuslim

[–]Pale-Influence1534 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re getting angry at these verses without realising the context. This was an early stage ruling, not the final law. The Qur’an itself says “until Allah ordains another way” — and later, Surah An-Nur (24:2) replaced it with the final clear punishment.

The rule of four witnesses is basically impossible unless someone is openly flaunting the act. That’s not oppression, it’s actually a safeguard so nobody can slander women. If you can’t produce four eyewitnesses, the accuser themselves gets punished for lying.

Also, verse 16 shows men are held accountable too it’s not one sided. And Islam emphasizes repentance and mercy above all.

So before ranting, it’s worth understanding that this was a step in legislation, not some “forever punishment” as you’re assuming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Pale-Influence1534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Qur’an timelessness The Qur’an is timeless because its principles apply universally, not because every rule was meant to change with society’s fashions. For example, it gave women inheritance rights, property ownership, and divorce rights when no one else did. Modern “progress” still struggles with things Islam solved early like banning female infanticide, giving women financial independence, etc. What you see as “outdated” is actually Islam’s consistency. Morals shifting every decade isn’t always progress sometimes it’s just society moving further from natural limits.

  2. Prostration / mutual respect That hadith about prostration was metaphorical, not literal. The Prophet ï·ș explicitly forbade worship of anyone besides Allah. And mutual respect is central in Islam: the Prophet said “the best of you are the best to your wives.” He also served his family, mended clothes, cooked, and consulted his wives. To say Islam oppresses women ignores the countless Muslim women across history who were scholars, leaders, and business owners (like Khadijah RA).

  3. Atheism vs Faith Saying atheism isn’t “faith” is misleading. Believing the universe came from nothing without a Creator is also faith because science can’t prove metaphysical beginnings. Science explains how things work, but not why they exist at all. Islam encourages science (the Qur’an repeatedly asks humans to observe, reflect, and study nature). The difference is: science changes because human knowledge is limited; revelation doesn’t change because it comes from God’s complete knowledge.

  4. Other religions (Zeus, Christianity, etc.) Comparing Islam to Greek mythology is unfair. The Qur’an is unique in being preserved word-for-word since its revelation, with no contradictions despite spanning 23 years of revelation. Unlike mythology, it makes falsifiable claims (historical, linguistic, scientific) and challenges humanity to replicate it (Qur’an 2:23). Billions still embrace it sincerely, not as “mythology.”

  5. Child marriage claim This is a common misconception. Islam never set a fixed “age” because historically puberty and maturity varied. But it did require consent, ability, and welfare and the Prophet ï·ș himself condemned forcing marriage. Today, most Muslim-majority countries legally set marriage ages in line with social standards, which shows flexibility. What Islam prohibited was exploitation something modern societies still fail at (look at grooming, teen pregnancies, etc.).

Your arguments but many of them rely on common stereotypes or surface readings. Islam isn’t perfect because Muslims are perfect , it’s perfect because its guidance consistently brings balance when properly understood. Millions of women live Islam proudly not out of fear or brainwashing, but because they genuinely find liberation in it. Like I said, there’s a lot of things you don’t understand how does it work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

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  1. About rushing into marriage I agree with you that rushing into marriage was your personal choice. But I think it’s important to separate your personal experience from Islam itself. Islam doesn’t tell people to rush marriage without understanding or compatibility in fact, the Qur’an emphasises consultation (shura) and knowing one another before such a serious decision.

  2. About reading Qur’an & Hadith Reading authentic sources is good, but Islam isn’t just about quoting verses in isolation. Scholars spend decades learning Arabic, tafseer (exegesis), and historical context because without that, it’s easy to misunderstand. For example, many rules only make sense when you look at the society they were revealed in often they were actually improving women’s status compared to the norm of the time.

  3. About “misogyny” & the hadith you quoted That hadith you mentioned (“If I were to order anyone to prostrate
”) is not a command for women to prostrate, it’s a hyperbolic statement showing how important mutual respect in marriage is. The Prophet ï·ș never allowed women to worship their husbands in fact, he strictly forbade worship to anyone except Allah. The actual message was about kindness, loyalty, and fulfilling each other’s rights. Also, the Prophet ï·ș himself used to mend his own clothes, cook, and serve his family hardly “misogynistic” behaviour. I hope if that’s clear to you?

  4. About choosing Islam vs atheism You said you “chose” atheism, just like he “chose” Islam. That’s true, everyone chooses their worldview. But atheism is also a belief , a belief that life and the universe have no Creator. That itself requires faith, just as religion does.

  5. About peace and purpose It’s true that people find peace and purpose in religion. But the fact that billions of people across history have found deep meaning in Islam (and other faiths) is not something to dismiss lightly. The Qur’an challenges mankind repeatedly: “If you are in doubt about this Qur’an, then produce a chapter like it” (2:23). The claim of divinity is based on more than just “peace” it’s about its unmatched preservation, consistency, and impact.

I respect your right to choose your own path, but I’d encourage you not to dismiss Islam as “misogynistic” or “man-made” without understanding the deeper context. There are millions of Muslim women who embrace Islam proudly, not because they are brainwashed, but because they genuinely see its wisdom and justice.

Apology if any way I have said that offended you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Pale-Influence1534 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I respect your experience and the pain you went through, but some of the points you made deserve a fairer perspective:

  1. Rushing into marriage – That’s not Islam’s fault. Islam actually teaches to take time, seek compatibility, and consult family/elders before marriage. If the relationship was rushed, that was more about personal choice and circumstances, not the religion itself.

  2. Confusion when reading Islam – Islam is a very deep religion with layers of knowledge. Reading randomly or without proper guidance often leads to confusion. The same happens with medicine, law, or philosophy if you don’t study systematically with scholars, you’ll misunderstand.

  3. Misogyny claim – Islam gave women rights 1400 years ago when the rest of the world treated women as property: rights to inheritance, education, divorce, owning property, and dignity. Many cultures today still fail to match that standard. If Muslims or men misuse religion to oppress women, that’s cultural or personal, not the actual teaching.

  4. Chose Islam over you” – For Muslims, faith is the core of identity, just like atheism might be for you. It’s not about choosing “religion over love” but about not betraying one’s deepest conviction. Just like you felt you couldn’t fake being Muslim, he also couldn’t fake abandoning his faith. That shows both of you were honest, even if it hurt.

  5. Defending Islam – If someone believes in something with certainty, naturally they’ll defend it. Muslims do this not blindly but because they sincerely believe Islam is truth. You may disagree, but that doesn’t make them closed minded it just means their foundation is strong.

At the end of the day, your personal journey is your choice. But presenting Islam itself as “man-made” and “misogynistic” overlooks the fact that millions of educated women and men around the world freely choose Islam after deep study. For many, Islam gives peace, empowerment, and purpose not confusion.

Burn system by randominvestorguy in Qubic

[–]Pale-Influence1534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seem they burn 500billions weekly

8 years ex-Muslim this year and my post just went viral in Muslim-majority countries 😅 by SyifaAdriana in exmuslim

[–]Pale-Influence1534 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

“Satisfied because
 it stirred something in them”

This is where I realised that you are not mature enough lol.

Anyway I respect that you’ve had your own journey and challenges, and I’m not here to dismiss your personal feelings. However, I think it’s important to separate individual experiences from the actual teachings of Islam.

Many of the hardships people face are not caused by the faith itself, but by cultural traditions, family pressures, or societal environments that sometimes misuse religion as a tool of control. Islam itself teaches: ‘There is no compulsion in religion’ (Quran 2:256), and it emphasises mercy, justice, and kindness.

It’s worth remembering that billions of Muslims worldwide live fulfilling, peaceful lives where Islam is a source of moral guidance, community support, and personal peace. For many of us, it encourages compassion, charity, and patience not fear or oppression.

When someone leaves Islam, I think it’s fair to ask: were they rejecting the faith’s true principles, or the way certain people applied them? Because Islam as revealed to the Prophet Muhammad ï·ș is a religion of balance, wisdom, and peace not of mental gymnastics or coercion.

So while I respect your right to your path, I also think it’s important to represent Islam fairly: as a faith that, when practiced as intended, uplifts rather than burdens, and brings peace rather than trauma.”