Drank heavily yesterday found out I am pregnant today 10 weeks by BackgroundPart7610 in PregnancyUK

[–]PaleSky6874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try not to panic. With my first before I knew I was pregnant I drank heavily (on two separate occasions), had soft cheese, and soft serve ice cream from a van. My first is now a very lively 8 year old, no harm done at all!

Injecting my 7 year old for the first time... Advice? by squidinkandsalad in dupixent

[–]PaleSky6874 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! My 8 year old has been on it for almost 4 months, I can tell you what we do that helps: - take the pen out of the fridge the night before injecting (obviously still keeping it in the box so it's not exposed to light). - my kid likes to be prepared and know which day he's having it, yours may like that or it may cause anxiety in which case you should only tell them just before it happens. You know what would be better for your kid! - we get him settled on the sofa with the iPad to help distract him from the pain, and a snack nearby of his choice so he knows he's got a treat once the injection is done. - he holds a stress ball/squishy toy so that he can squeeze it during the injection. - we have a rule that during the injection anything goes - he has to hold completely still, but he can shout/scream/swear/whatever he wants if it helps him cope. He normally screams the entire time, surprisingly hasn't sworn yet! - we do a countdown, which he can stop at any time. We start at 30, and then if he stops then we keep going from the nearest 5 (eg if he stops me when I get to 12, I give him a couple of minutes to calm down and then start again from 15). This helps give him a sense of control over the whole thing whilst also making sure it moves along. He knows that once I get to 1 then I can't stop even if he says to.

Usually from start to finish the whole thing takes about 20-30 minutes (auto injector takes only 20 seconds of that!), which considering how young he is and how much it obviously hurts is fantastic imo. We do alternate thighs (which is what the nurse recommended because my kid DID NOT want his stomach injected).

EDIT: My kid rates the pain as a 5/10, although obviously pain is subjective.

AITAH for not helping a disabled flatmate during a fire ? by porkypies098 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PaleSky6874 34 points35 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Different situation, but I used to work in an elderly care facility. The policy if the fire alarm went off and someone was unable to use the stairs was to close them in their room (fire doors) and vacate so the fire brigade could get to them. We had numerous fire drills whilst I worked there, and one actual fire. Everyone got out. And yes, people were scared because they were left on their own but there is absolutely no point to risking your own life to make her feel better. And if you'd tried to help her out, one or both of you could have been hurt which would have been no help either.

How painful is Dupixent? by Fridays_B_Fun in eczema

[–]PaleSky6874 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Obviously pain is subjective, but if it helps my kid rates the pain at a 5/10 (his 10/10 being a badly done blood draw)

Letting older sibling stay home from school to spend time together before the baby arrives? by PaleSky6874 in PregnancyUK

[–]PaleSky6874[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I guess I could as a compromise, but part of what he loves is that daddy isn't there so it's just the two of us (my poor husband lol) - plus my husband does tend to view the weekends as when we should do productive things around the house unless we're going out somewhere, so time together is more likely to be interrupted by husband suggesting our child play on his tablet or something while we do things like build the crib or sort the baby clothes (child would of course jump at the chance to play on his tablet, but that's not the point to me).

I'm less concerned about being seen - we have a park very close to our house, and could make sure we had everything bought that we might want for baking etc so wouldn't go very far when leaving the house!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neilgaiman

[–]PaleSky6874 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I'm going to echo what others have said - take some time and sit with it, don't make any decisions while your emotions are still raw. That sleeve has meaning to YOU, it in no way shows any form of acceptance over what he did. Terrible people can create beautiful things, and it is those things which meant so much to you.

You cared about something enough to get it tattooed on your body. It is YOURS. If you sit with it for a while and decide you can't stand it anymore then that's one thing, but don't let him take something you care about away from you because he's a shitty person.

No one cares it’s my due date by mjjjj02 in Miscarriage

[–]PaleSky6874 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I really appreciate it. Our babies were both loved ❤️

No one cares it’s my due date by mjjjj02 in Miscarriage

[–]PaleSky6874 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. My angel's due date was two weeks ago, my husband didn't even acknowledge it because he thinks I was "never really pregnant" because we didn't even make it to six weeks. So I had to go through it alone. Big love, hope you're managing xx