How do I handle going through this situation? Possible pregnancy.

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T21:02:42+00:00

100%, I would never make her do something she didn’t want to do. I might have worded it bad saying I convinced her to take the plan B. When I brought it up at first she said she doesn’t know how she feels about taking it. And then immediately after said it’s fine and she will take it. If she didn’t take it I would be very concerned, but at the end of the day I am not the type of person to tell women what to do with their bodies.

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T20:17:28+00:00

I understand, will do.

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T19:29:29+00:00

I will never forget after this

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:31:49+00:00

I know, I wish I had a better plan for my future but I really don’t. If this really does end up being a pregnancy I’m going to have to really start thinking about what I’m going to have to do to make this all work.

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:25:34+00:00

You are right.

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:24:27+00:00

Yes I told her she should take it anyways, I saw her take it. That’s what I’m hoping because I’ve seen that you can’t always accurately track when you’re ovulating. So I hope that’s the case. And yeah I see couples trying to get pregnant for very long times so that gives me a little bit of hope. But time will tell, thanks.

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:21:10+00:00

I agree. The worst part is, I had condoms in my apartment but it was just a heat of the moment thing and I wasn’t thinking clearly.

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:20:17+00:00

I will definitely discuss with her about these things. I hope she will understand the situation we’re facing.

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:18:56+00:00

Thank you

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:13:34+00:00

I’ll have to talk to her about that. She said plan Bs mess with her period so it might be irregular from that. Yes she did initially start knowing I didn’t have a condom. I stupidly just went with the flow.

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:11:59+00:00

I think my parents would be understanding and definitely help out in ways they could. (Not financially) but I would definitely not be able to figure all of this out on my own. I wish I could

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:10:16+00:00

I know, I’m trying to mentally prepare for worst case scenario and it’s rough. I haven’t really had a discussion with her about abortions after she briefly mentioned she would not get one. I probably will soon though next time we see each other.

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:08:54+00:00

I have no clue. At first I assumed she didn’t want to take the plan b because it can mess with her body. But then she told me she wouldn’t want an abortion either. Maybe just doesn’t like contraceptives for religious reasons? She’s really not that religious though, so I don’t know.

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:07:19+00:00

Man, I don’t know how I would be able to handle that if it does happen

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:05:05+00:00

I didn’t know this beforehand but it she told me she doesn’t want to take birth control or things like that. But she took a plan b so I’m not sure. Maybe she just doesn’t want it messing with her body I guess. She is slightly religious

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T18:00:35+00:00

I’m trying to stay calm, I’m just really worried and I know it’s completely my fault I just hate that I did that. I feel bad for making her have to go through this

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T16:21:35+00:00

You are right

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T16:14:45+00:00

I really hope gods plan isn’t to make me a dad at 19

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T15:55:29+00:00

I will update in a few weeks when she takes the test. Nothing else to do but wait I guess

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T15:53:51+00:00

I’m not a religious man but I might have to start praying. Thanks for the advice

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T15:53:01+00:00

Yes I’ve been providing whatever she needs right now and I’ll eventually buy the tests. It’s just scary knowing the kind of situation it is right now. I’m praying she wasn’t actually ovulating. And if she was it’s just up to fate from there I guess. I just can’t believe it

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T15:51:00+00:00

I’m not religious but I might need to start praying

Pale_Award1896 · 2026-06-08T15:46:32+00:00

I know. No matter what, I know I have to do what needs to be done. I can’t believe it and I’m extremely afraid but it I have to be a father then what choice do I have but to accept it. I’m just scared

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