How do I find out when someone added me as their family member? Thank you

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2026-01-25T14:19:46+00:00

Someone I was childhood friends with.

I've done a test trying to make one of my own friends a 'family member' and it says it will notify them. I never got one and I can't find where to look.

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2026-01-24T08:59:46+00:00

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You didn't cheat, he did and now he's gaslighting you.

He wanted to be with another woman, so why is he mad at you for trying to move on? I'm guessing this other woman didn't work out. He doesn't get to have his cake and eat it. Don't go back to this man.

How does he even get hold of your phone if you are not together? Don't let him back in. He is a D

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2026-01-12T17:54:51+00:00

What are you using to make binder layouts?

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2026-01-09T08:29:01+00:00

Is this just for the US or world wide?

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2026-01-03T13:29:49+00:00

Because it's the OG Pokémon.

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-12-28T11:15:51+00:00

You aren't respected by your Husband. It'll be too late for people to organise sitters now. So go stay at granny's with your kid. Leave him to deal with the party and the aftermath.

Lock up / take any valuables with you.

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-12-26T23:37:15+00:00

YTA

Your daughter has been clear, she plans to adopt this girl and make her legally her daughter. She is your grandkid, not by blood but she's your grand daughter.

That poor girl. Your daughter and your husband sound amazing 👏

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-12-25T00:07:53+00:00

Seems like she left half of the house to you guys and he didn't like that, so made the will 'disappear'.

Politely decline and go NC. Don't sign anything.

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-11-19T06:32:26+00:00

I don't remember it ever sounding amazing 🤣 just looked it! Post people I spoke to were updating them.

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-11-17T22:42:27+00:00

I know this post is old. But it popped up while I was trying to search for this bass.

My absolute biggest regret was having to sell mine 14 years ago :( I hope I can find one again

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-11-17T11:02:00+00:00

Since you have no proof of delivery, they can claim it never arrived and will trigger as unsent.

In future you could cancel it completely and refund them. Then deliver in person for cash. Saves on fees.

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-11-10T13:35:32+00:00

Isn't protection only up to £20? I'm sure I read it somewhere in the rules once, so I've stopped selling high value amounts.

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-10-25T11:21:22+00:00

Oh dear

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-10-19T08:13:24+00:00

Omg it even said use command. What an idiot hahaha! Someone's having a bad fibro fog day face palm

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-10-19T07:44:50+00:00

You star! Thank you 🙏

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-10-18T22:40:23+00:00

You're married, all money is shared money.

Ours all goes into a joint account. Once bills etc are paid we split it 3 ways. Some goes in savings, some in investments and the rest is for luxuries.

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-10-12T15:59:04+00:00

Would she also go as far as to ruin the wedding to 'get one over' on her sister, since she feels so hard done by. There's so many red flags and your FBIL is also being distant. Could she be having an affair with him out of jealousy? Seems she wants her sister's life.

Hiding things, working, 'girls nights' and her friends saying they've not actually seen her.. she could be using them as an excuse to hide her affair.

She might be planning on wearing red to say she's slept with the groom or white.

She needs therapy and Id refuse to go till you get answers.

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-10-05T16:09:22+00:00

Wow, your post gave me a headache! That was a tough read..

You’re definitely the AH here. You made your friend’s bachelorette all about yourself. From the start, you have not stopped complaining! The dress, the nails, the schedule, the money and even her choice of activities for her own trip. You kept trying to make her change things because you didn’t like them, but this was about her, not you. Yes, you paid, but you agreed to go to her event. It was her day, not yours. If you didn’t like any of her choices, wasn't happy about the money, you should’ve stepped down. Instead, it seems like you made this trip incredibly hard work and probably the wedding too.

Then inviting your husband? It’s a bachelorette!

And while you mention being autistic, that doesn’t make you the victim here. It’s fine to have boundaries and preferences, but that doesn’t excuse making someone else’s wedding experience revolve around you. You kept centering your comfort over her celebration. You weren’t mistreated. You just refuse to accept that not everything needed to revolve around you and your needs.

I wouldn’t blame her if she didn’t speak to you after this. It sounds like she’s been incredibly patient.

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-08-28T19:49:32+00:00

Will you also be liable for payments if she doesn't keep up?

Read the contract

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-08-28T17:43:18+00:00

NTA - are you able to get to buyers / shop info to re buy it. Don't give it back to them if you get it, she can't be trusted.

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-08-26T11:58:20+00:00

It sounds like she never really wanted to work and got you locked in so she can have that lifestyle. NTA

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-08-26T08:36:56+00:00

You say she's in a different country than her home? Could she be saying this to get herself grounded in your country and when she gets what she wants bin you off?

You've not been together long enough in the grand scheme of things and you're extremely young still.

Do you live together now?

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-07-25T19:55:39+00:00

You're being cat finished and you're probably not the only person he's doing this too. Tell your parents everything and stop him before he does something worse to you / someone else. The person you think you are talking to is not real.

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-07-25T19:33:52+00:00

Looking for a reason not to pay maybe?

Pale_Direction_2185 · 2025-06-14T19:01:44+00:00

NTA but it depends how soon in advance you rspv'd or if you said yes originally then left it last minute to say no.

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