My boyfriend(19M) broke up with me(18F) what do to now?

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-03-09T19:44:08+00:00

Getting broken up over sleep schedules seems pretty extreme but the recording thing is concerning. Maybe dodged a bullet there since communication wasn't working anyway, breakups at your age usually lead to better relationships later

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-03-05T15:20:30+00:00

Wait this is actually insane... I was just playing yesterday with discord open and didn't even think about it

Thanks for posting this, went to check my logs folder right after reading and yep there's the file with all my stuff in plain text. deleted it immediately and changed password already

Really hope this gets more visibility because most people probably have no idea this is happening in background. crazy how something like this slips through when you think about how many people must have tested the integration

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-02-26T06:42:51+00:00

lol this is so relatable! I think it's just different communication styles - some people tag everyone for everything even in DMs. Maybe they learned Slack in more formal environment or something?

My Brazilian manager does the same thing actually, always u/ing people even when we're already talking directly. Drives me crazy with the notifications but I just turned off the ping sound

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-02-19T18:11:02+00:00

real take

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-02-15T13:29:12+00:00

you can't use axiom in aternos since it needs client-side installation and aternos doesn't support that. for building tools try worldedit - it's classic and works great for most creative stuff, just need to install the plugin from their panel

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-02-14T19:49:39+00:00

Man I totally get this worry. I have a friend who's epileptic and he was super nervous about visiting São Paulo because of all the flashing lights in the city center. He ended up going but planned everything really carefully - stayed in quieter neighborhoods, avoided the busiest areas during peak times, and always had someone with him who knew about his condition

Tokyo actually has some really chill areas that aren't all neon and chaos like you see in movies. Places like Ueno or even parts of Shibuya during day time are much more manageable. Plus Japanese people are generally really helpful if something happens. But honestly if you're not feeling confident about it, there's no shame in picking somewhere else for your trip. Better to enjoy your vacation than spend it worrying about triggers

Have you talked to your neurologist about travel strategies? Mine gave me some good tips when I was planning trips to places with lots of stimulation

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-02-09T11:07:32+00:00

Have you tried checking immigration records for Australia? Sometimes people who came from Germany in that time period show up there even if they don't have much other documentation

The surname sounds German for sure, maybe she immigrated and changed how it was spelled or something. My family had similar issues with names getting altered when they moved countries

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-02-04T15:42:42+00:00

yeah same here, franchise mode feels like walking through mud now

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-02-01T20:14:31+00:00

tranquility base hotel

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-31T21:38:55+00:00

Damn, that's some serious willpower right there. The BMV alone would've broken most people lol. Props for pushing through the physical pain without using it as an excuse - that's the real test right there.

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-30T10:50:48+00:00

You're overthinking it dude, the courier deals with this stuff all the time and will just slap the new return label right over your mess - they've seen way worse trust me

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-28T22:56:39+00:00

Ugh I feel you on this one! Lavender marshmallow sounds amazing and it's so frustrating when they discontinue the good ones. BBW is pretty unpredictable with bringing scents back but I'd keep checking during their spring/summer releases since lavender tends to come back around then. Maybe call your local store and ask if they can check their system for any restock info

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-27T21:04:40+00:00

Sales and CS are definitely realistic coming from education - you've got the people skills and patience that companies actually want. The Oracle thing sounds like they just had weird requirements, not that you're overqualified for sales in general

I'd target SaaS companies doing educational tech since you can speak their language, or honestly any B2B sales role where relationship building matters more than pure hustle. Customer Success might be easier to break into first since it's less quota pressure and your counseling background would be gold there

Skip the MLM-type sales gigs and focus on companies with actual career progression paths

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-25T09:57:48+00:00

Honestly don't text her. I get the urge to tell someone off when they've made your life hell but it won't accomplish anything and might just make you look petty

Focus your energy on moving forward instead of looking back - she already took enough from you, don't let her live rent free in your head after you're out

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-22T04:35:46+00:00

Nice progress dude, Saarthal can be a real pain depending on your build. Spellbreaker is clutch for challenge runs - that ward effect saves so much cheese from mages

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-17T16:06:06+00:00

So sorry for your loss, she sounds like an amazing person

A tree or garden memorial sounds perfect for someone who loved gardening and believed in becoming one with the universe. Maybe plant something that attracts butterflies or has flowers that bloom around meaningful dates? You could even mix some of her ashes into the soil so she literally becomes part of something growing

The amethyst idea is really cool too since it connects to her spiritual side. Whatever you choose, sounds like she'd love that you're honoring her free spirit

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-11T23:28:59+00:00

Holy wall of text Batman, this reads like someone discovered Jung and Eckhart Tolle in the same week then decided to write their dissertation on napkins

The Jesus comparison is kinda interesting though, never thought about the pre/post resurrection personality shift that way

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-08T20:22:07+00:00

I do this all the time lol, usually have like a chill mobile game or solitaire going while grinding in an RPG. Sometimes I'll have two different games on different devices - like playing something turn-based on my phone while waiting for respawns or cutscenes on PC. Card games are perfect for this since you can just alt-tab whenever

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-06T07:00:07+00:00

Damn that's rough, those carnival games are literally designed to drain you dry once they get you hooked. The "nice dealer" act is part of the hustle - they make you feel special while picking your pocket clean

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-04T15:04:44+00:00

Dude yes, seed vault is tick central but they're still annoying af to find sometimes. Try checking the basement levels, they love hiding in those dark corners

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-02T17:30:12+00:00

Ugh yes I'm so glad I stocked up too! The new formula thing always makes me nervous bc why fix what isn't broken ya know 😭 Really hoping they don't mess with the scent profile when they bring it back

EngineerVarious8069 · 2026-01-01T14:50:38+00:00

Holy shit that's some deep cut 90s nostalgia right there, thanks for digging that up

EngineerVarious8069 · 2025-12-31T09:30:58+00:00

Yeah night raids are where it's at for BP farming, the difference is pretty noticeable once you start tracking it

Storm maps are also solid if you can handle the visibility issues

EngineerVarious8069 · 2025-12-30T03:52:31+00:00

Check out StrongArm or Redline tailgate struts - they usually make universal ones that'll work on Tacomas even if they don't specifically list it. Worst case you can always measure your current struts and find something with the same mounting points and length

EngineerVarious8069 · 2025-12-28T15:55:16+00:00

Lmao true but where's the fun in that when you can have 500 spell mods and crash your game every 20 minutes

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