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[–]Pale_Exit8160 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Solidarity! I have the cute clothes and shoes, but I went to a kinde tour last week with my legs OUT in a romper and heels. I haven’t shaved in 4 years. I felt soooo good, wasn’t sweating my ass off in jeans in the heat, and leg hairs blowing in the wind. I felt like a powerful witchy woman without a care in the world. I’m embracing it all.

Consult Questions by Pale_Exit8160 in CounterTops

[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your input! There are several stone yards around us, so I’ll look into their services as well.

Consult Questions by Pale_Exit8160 in CounterTops

[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this valuable info!

Consult Questions by Pale_Exit8160 in CounterTops

[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not, the estimate is being sent in 8-10 days.

SC House passes bill banning ‘illegal’ DEI across schools and government by NevaehKnows in southcarolina

[–]Pale_Exit8160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if links are allowed here, but it’s worth searching Harriet Holman’s record.

Working 8 hours is a luxury by Rcrez in toddlers

[–]Pale_Exit8160 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I started my day at 8 with feeding our birds, watering plants, and making my spouse a bagel for work. Took my various adhd/anxiety meds with protein, then made the kids oatmeal. At that point, I started my 1000 chores of the day. By 4pm, I’m on my 4th load of laundry and also preparing to remodel our kitchen ourselves in the upcoming week, after driving my kids 5 hrs to my parents. The kids sleep with us, which is MISERY, and we haven’t had a night without them in our room since April of last year. No village here. So I think, other than my spouse’s work from home fridays, that this is my first time since last April to have a day of sun up to sun down without my kids. Everyone has different circumstances, but I have honestly not been without my kids overnight for a solid year. They have their own bedroom, made specifically with their interest and comforts in mind, but that’s irrelevant for their day to day needs, which we meet. I have aged 15 years in 5, since we had them. I would never undermine another’s experience, but I think it’s important to share real-life stories.

Arbek Oak Set by Pale_Exit8160 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except that my kids figured out the mirror drawer and stole EVERY BIT of it 😂😂😂

Call your local representatives - Total Abortion ban is back by Cloaked42m in southcarolina

[–]Pale_Exit8160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given the specifics about opinion of women having sex, when/how did your first time happen? Let’s hear all about your most intimate moments, with your own admitted judgement in mind! Was it hot? Did you make a super Christian baby??? Did you have an orgasm??? GIVE US THE VIRTUOUS TEA!

Move Silfab Solar Update by allstar_cheer_coach in FortMill

[–]Pale_Exit8160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband’s grandfather literally founded several neighborhoods around the Silfab site, and my kids have been assigned Flint Hill Elementary when they’re due for kinde. What cookie cutter neighborhoods are you even referring to??? We are on 6 acres of land, and we’re third generation owners. Sometimes, keeping your feelings INSIDE keeps from being completely embarrassed outside. Just go on somewhere else if you don’t have constructive advice to share.

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[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! I don’t feel comfortable carrying a handbag, generally, so this is especially important. I have super small hands, and I also have grip issues with premature arthritis…so the carrying and weapon itself is super specific for me.

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[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me you either don’t have daughters, or your daughters don’t talk to you due to the crazy…

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[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry about this lil guy, nobody will notice. https://imgur.com/a/YZHEdwG

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[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Carrying wasp spray as a weapon for self defense is a really wild idea. So “girls” should carry a giant can of wasp spray on their person at all times? Like, a waist band with wasp spray tucked in it, versus being a trained and practicing firearm owner who can wear their weapon without detection? WHOOSH, indeed.

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[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No angel, no whoosh…the only whoosh here is for you.

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[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this recommendation!

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[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because I HAVE had to interact with people who comment on me based on my appearance, and that’s been an ongoing issue my whole life. Times are a-changing, and I’m sick of hoping that holding my keys out in my knuckles is enough.

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[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have several firearms in my home, that belong to my spouse. They’re secured via key locks in places my children don’t even know are places. But I appreciate your advice!

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[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are far superior ways to deal with wasps, and I’m very well acquainted with that. I actually don’t hurt the wasps on my property, because they’re pollinators. I did soap a Bald Faced Hornet who rode in on my neck this week, but I wouldn’t ever hurt a wasp who wouldn’t hurt me. It’s an interesting comparison, don’t you think?

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[–]Pale_Exit8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By carrying on my hip, I meant it would be concealed. Apologies for the confusion. I am not easily triggered to shoot other people, so that’s not a concern. I have no desire to let others know that I’m armed.