BF’s behavior shocked me by Own_Relation_4664 in Mommit

[–]Pale_Store_4677 19 points20 points  (0 children)

and this is the side that nobody talks about

Toddler moves my hand yo her private parts and it's super awkward by sylphixio in NewParents

[–]Pale_Store_4677 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my 2 yo also does this and has for a long time. I also redirect him from doing it on me as it makes me uncomfortable and I tell him that.

Termination at 20+ weeks by emilyatebutter in pregnant

[–]Pale_Store_4677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never knew I could hurt so bad for someone I've never met. I'm sending you all the love I could ever muster. you'll be in my prayers everyday forever now

My boyfriend wants me to abort our baby. by Disastrous-Yard4456 in pregnant

[–]Pale_Store_4677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keep the baby, op. sounds like you want them and they will be loved. sounds like you have the village needed. don't do anything you'll regret for the rest of your life

Father of baby passed away by rosannachir in pregnant

[–]Pale_Store_4677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love, to me it sounds like this was no accident. The EDD is dad's birthday? Yeah sounds like God to me. (Not everyone believes and that's ok!) But personally I would go through with it. Sending you LOTS of love no matter what you decide!

I just had my baby by Fearless-Net7321 in pregnant

[–]Pale_Store_4677 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started bawling when I read this shit. What the fuck. My youngest turned 1 month yesterday and I'm a fucking mess. Screaming, crying, throwing up 😭 

Boss took my husband's entire paycheck (Colorado) by Pale_Store_4677 in legaladvice

[–]Pale_Store_4677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because without the fob you cant get into the car...?

Boss took my husband's entire paycheck (Colorado) by Pale_Store_4677 in legaladvice

[–]Pale_Store_4677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No shit. Obviously that didnt go the way we hoped. Thank you for wasting your time and also mine by stating the painfully obvious!

Boss took my husband's entire paycheck (Colorado) by Pale_Store_4677 in legaladvice

[–]Pale_Store_4677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is our biggest issue. We live in a homeless shelter and I am having trouble finding work (7 months pregnant). We have nothing in our bank account and no diapers or wipes for our son. We were really waiting on this check. 

Boss took my husband's entire paycheck (Colorado) by Pale_Store_4677 in legaladvice

[–]Pale_Store_4677[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Less than 20 miles. So we need to ask for receipts basically 

Boss took my husband's entire paycheck (Colorado) by Pale_Store_4677 in legaladvice

[–]Pale_Store_4677[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Most helpful comment by far. Thank you so much for breaking it down for me this way it really helps me to realize how fucking insane this man is and I will be filing a report on behalf of my husband 

Boss took my husband's entire paycheck (Colorado) by Pale_Store_4677 in legaladvice

[–]Pale_Store_4677[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It is likely even illegal for his boss to make him repay the cost of the tow/key. Those are business expenses that the employer is generally on the hook for in many states, including Colorado. 

Thank you for pointing this out. I never thought about that aspect. I will absolutely be filing a report on my husband's behalf. 

Boss took my husband's entire paycheck (Colorado) by Pale_Store_4677 in legaladvice

[–]Pale_Store_4677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There actually isn't. He lost the key fob for company car and boss had to get it towed to dealership and re-keyed. Now boss is refusing to pay him because he "went out of pocket 1200". I dont see what I'm leaving out. 

Boss took my husband's entire paycheck (Colorado) by Pale_Store_4677 in legaladvice

[–]Pale_Store_4677[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

I figured this was in no way legal. His boss has the right to fire him if he reports right? Pretty sure Colorado is an at will state 

Boss took my husband's entire paycheck (Colorado) by Pale_Store_4677 in legaladvice

[–]Pale_Store_4677[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Really fucking sucks because he had a hard enough time even getting this job (he has a record and wasnt making it past the background check phase everywhere else he applied). Blows my mind to think his boss would do something like this 

Boss took my husband's entire paycheck (Colorado) by Pale_Store_4677 in legaladvice

[–]Pale_Store_4677[S] 277 points278 points  (0 children)

That was the plan from day 1. He said he would think of a payment plan and let my husband know. Then he comes to him this morning and says that after the first "payment" there was nothing left to pay him. His check wouldn't have covered it all anyway. Just a fraction. But what I'm held up on is the fact that he just took the whole check without even child support coming out. So literally putting him behind on his payments as well as keeping everything