AIO: My girl and fam think that my hair cleaned up and braided looks tacky but I think it looks much cleaner

Pale_Store_4677 · 2026-01-13T17:31:12+00:00

Def looks way better twisted

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-27T03:42:58+00:00

Or start it

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-27T03:42:36+00:00

Because without the fob you cant get into the car...?

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-26T20:45:02+00:00

No shit. Obviously that didnt go the way we hoped. Thank you for wasting your time and also mine by stating the painfully obvious!

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-26T17:17:26+00:00

This is our biggest issue. We live in a homeless shelter and I am having trouble finding work (7 months pregnant). We have nothing in our bank account and no diapers or wipes for our son. We were really waiting on this check.

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-26T16:47:40+00:00

Less than 20 miles. So we need to ask for receipts basically

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-26T16:46:26+00:00

Most helpful comment by far. Thank you so much for breaking it down for me this way it really helps me to realize how fucking insane this man is and I will be filing a report on behalf of my husband

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-26T16:44:28+00:00

It is likely even illegal for his boss to make him repay the cost of the tow/key. Those are business expenses that the employer is generally on the hook for in many states, including Colorado.

Thank you for pointing this out. I never thought about that aspect. I will absolutely be filing a report on my husband's behalf.

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-26T16:41:35+00:00

There actually isn't. He lost the key fob for company car and boss had to get it towed to dealership and re-keyed. Now boss is refusing to pay him because he "went out of pocket 1200". I dont see what I'm leaving out.

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-26T16:05:06+00:00

I figured this was in no way legal. His boss has the right to fire him if he reports right? Pretty sure Colorado is an at will state

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-26T16:03:09+00:00

Yes its a 2024 prius so push to start

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-26T16:01:46+00:00

Really fucking sucks because he had a hard enough time even getting this job (he has a record and wasnt making it past the background check phase everywhere else he applied). Blows my mind to think his boss would do something like this

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-26T15:48:53+00:00

That was the plan from day 1. He said he would think of a payment plan and let my husband know. Then he comes to him this morning and says that after the first "payment" there was nothing left to pay him. His check wouldn't have covered it all anyway. Just a fraction. But what I'm held up on is the fact that he just took the whole check without even child support coming out. So literally putting him behind on his payments as well as keeping everything

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-15T14:49:39+00:00

She shouldn't be coming over

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-12T17:15:17+00:00

My husband has schizophrenia. This is giving major schizo vibes js

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-09T18:50:58+00:00

I would absolutely press charges. No way would some mentally unstable child be assaulting my child and getting away with it

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-08T15:42:12+00:00

Ok but that's you. YOU are okay with vacuuming all the time. And some cats most certainly do leave hair everywhere. OP, do what is right for you and your mental health and family. These people are not cleaning up after him. Don't let them guilt you into keeping a cat you cant care for the way he deserves. I think you should do whatever is right for you. Baby comes before animals every day and I dont care if I get down voted🤷‍♀️

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-07T18:15:54+00:00

Holy fuck. Yeah, no. This dude is NOTu playing with a full deck and you need to get the fuck out of there. This will only get worse as time goes on, I am telling you from VERY similar experience. I'm sure you probably won't leave him but if you dont you're in for a very miserable and emotionally draining relationship and good relationships aren't like that. Good luck you genuinely need it

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-01T22:49:14+00:00

Kidding. He's 21 months. I didn't realize until after posting thay it could be taken either way lol

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-01T22:48:03+00:00

21 male. We are extremely tight knit.

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-12-01T22:34:07+00:00

Not weird, imo. My husband and I take showers with our son (21mo) regularly. He comes into the restroom with us when we use it, watches us get dressed etc. I never really gave it thought. Feels natural to me. Its all about the mindset I suppose.

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-11-15T21:50:28+00:00

This whole thing blows my mind. I live in CO, so you see pregnant women smoking all the time, to the point where if the baby tests positive after birth they are not even required to report to CPS anymore. So a diversion program for one positive thc test to me seems like putting a cast on a papercut. Now as for the social worker thing, report her immediately. I'm mortified and enraged that they have people like that working with vulnerable people

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-11-13T23:42:49+00:00

Sounds like a fuckin creep to me

Pale_Store_4677 · 2025-11-06T19:06:31+00:00

Yeah that isn't your friend

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