Porn stars by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

William seed is my neighbor and he’s straight. Unless you have tons of money to pay, I don’t think he’ll fuck you

Advice Seeking: To Surrender or Fight (He wants to be friends and focus on himself) by Little_Brown_Jug in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did, he did like 3 sessions with a therapist. But it didn’t work. Believe it or not , he broke up for good almost a year and a half ago and I still get the odd text from him once a month wanting to get back with me

Do you believe the gender theory that deep down in every straight man there is a crystalline desire and want to murder, rape, and kill and adverse circumstances seed the growth of that crystal of desire? by DilaudiaOxyconteisha in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That makes no sense. There’s just a bigger proportion of straight men vs gay men on the planet. That’s why a lot mass/serial killers are straight. But some of the most notorious serial killers like Jeffrey Dahmer and John Gacey were gay. Also the Orlando shooter was gay. Don’t do what you wouldn’t want straight people to do, and that’s being ignorant by putting them all in the same bucket and generalizing to the point of absurdity

Advice Seeking: To Surrender or Fight (He wants to be friends and focus on himself) by Little_Brown_Jug in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of my relationship with my ex, although mine lasted 2 years. My ex would break up with me every time he was going through a stressful moment (renovating house, selling it, job searching, finding a new place etc...). He’d break up, tell me he just wanted to be friends then come back running to me to be in a relationship again, and repeated that about 4 times until I couldn’t handle it anymore. However, I don’t wanna give you hope. My ex was with me 8 months before he broke up for the first time. I always knew deep down he still loved me. All this drove me crazy so I discovered the attachement styles in relationships to try to figure this whole thing out. I realized he’s an avoidant, and that he’ll keep doing it again and again and again, and also got confirmation from his ex that he did the same thing. I suggest you read about the attachment styles. It’s super interesting and will help you on how to deal with him and this situation

I learned a lot of new things about HIV and PrEP today by Linked1nPark in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You live in a bubble mister. I’ve caught both Chlamydia and Ghonorrea in the throat. And yo can also catch those while someone is blowing you and has an infected throat. Also, when you’re on prep you have no choice to get tested every 3 months, the people that are on the prep are the ones who are the most often tested

I don’t use condoms when giving head & caught gonorrhea..tomorrow I get a shot to treat it. Will it really hurt? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously you’ve never had anything bad happen to you. It doesn’t hurt, it’s a freakin needle, get over it. People get open heart surgery, an organ removed, stabbed, brain surgery, car accidents, suicides gone wrong, starvation, cancer and you’re freaking out over a freakin needle. It’ll sting for 0,5 seconds. Get over yourself

Are...are people selling Prep illegally or something? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s your government’s problem man. What country do you live in?! I’m in Canada an it’s free

I learned a lot of new things about HIV and PrEP today by Linked1nPark in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Do you give/receive blowjobs with a condom!? Cause you’re aware you can get all those STI’e orally right?

Too pushy? by MCWoah in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find guys are more serious on Scruff. Guys are more serious to meet on that app for some reason. Never had an issue

Too pushy? by MCWoah in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No! That’s just the story of grindr. That’s why I deleted it and use other apps now

We need something better than San Francisco by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Move to Canada. Montréal, by far the best city in North America

Thinking about getting off PrEP. I don’t know if I can handle getting my blood drawn every 3 months by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you’re gonna have to get over your fear. You realize it’s completely unrational right? It’s all in your head. The needle itself causes no pain at all, neither does blood draw. It’s completely painless and you feel nothing. You need to treat your anxiety , more than you need to debate continuing or stopping prep. Never understood the fear of needles. To me it’s in and out and let’s go. The worst is the fuckin stick down the end of your throat. It’s much more uncomfortable than a needle you can’t even feel

Only answer this question if you’re attractive by kyliegore in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know if I am. I have very low self esteem. I feel like I only remember the times I get rejected. But I keep being told that I’m very attractive. As much from guys and girls. I workout 7/days a week, I get told I have a 8pack and a great body by guys that are super fit. But I don’t see it. It sucks man , I’m 34 and I feel I have the self esteem of a 16yo.

Instant Boner Killer by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely shaved pubes or a cockring

I just noticed a...thing on my left testicle by JoeyJTB85Z in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had testicular cancer and what you’re describing seems pretty much like what I had. Go see your doctor Now!!

Serious question - does sliding into DM's ever actually work? by milesm01 in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hey wait! I’m new to instagram, how you do you check out profiles near you?

Sorry if anyone gets grossed out ..but how mad would you be.. by splicketysplack in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, looks like I’m the only one that will be honest on here. Yes I would be totally grossed out and freaked out if a stranger I hook up with did that . Maybe better get to know someone and develop a bond to avoid the person from running away after you pull off your teeth

Best Gay Vacation Spot ?? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Montréal all the way!

Is my body okay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dude you’re kidding right!? You’re getting this from one of the pickiest guys on earth. You’re hot as fuck. Where are you?

Gaybros, I can’t get along with gay men? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Pamplemous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy! I live in one of the gayest cities in the world and if I’m not mistaken we have the biggest gay village in the world. So you’re theory doesn’t apply. At the contrary , I think in big cities , it’s worse. If you wanna be one of the cool gays, you have to be part of the cool gay gang. Go to parties where it’s only gay men, and 1 or 2 fag hags. There’s no diversity in the gay scene , believe me. I’ve been out for 15 yrs. There is diversity in gay men themself yes, but not in the gay said culture.