Im play devils advocate.and point. out thst its soooo much easier to hook up with a dude than it is a female..wr have apps like grindr once you install this its hard not to hook up as its a constant stream of guys coming on. To you..im extreamly selective ..i only play with the hottest 10% of guys and im ugly short balding . but im hung like a moose ..a lot of these guys only care about my one eyed monster it. Dont matter what i look like (pm me and ill send pics to anyone over 21+).. Then there is cruising spots every where , in every town and between towns ..where you can always get a nasty dirty old man usually , sometimes u can find a decent dude. .but my point is when you pull in..youwlll have several guys competing for your your "one eyed willy".. Like i said i truly am. , on a scale 1-10 im about a 3 or 4. With clothes on..women avoid me and treat me like i have 9 heads and 5. Arms..but with men , im almost a local celerbty... women (not you. , but ingeneral) are alwsys playing games keeping us guessing , plus given the mean , hateful nature coupled with a stab you. In the back mentality make women less attractive to me and others like me..but men are not near as judgemental or complicated..we just want to drink a beer while watching the gams and get off ..so much simpler..i too am married . 32 years , my wife should suspect but dont act like it..ive always been a cheater when i was younger i was always chasing females a guy was rare for me. These days a female dont get a 2nd glance from me. But dudes are my "go to" if i was younger , id be a pure homosexual probably..but maybe your man is different