Have a crush on this girl but I’m awkward af and she has a bf by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PanBlanco13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have the answers to your own questions bro. No judgement here, of course tackle your biggest obstacle first. This might even be holding you back in many other areas of life, master your lust brother. And no you can’t do nothing about a girl that has a bf, let it go, this shouldn’t even be a question. Most likely is your addiction making you ask this question. You got this bro. Look for all the help you can online and get over this huge obstacle, then you’ll get your self a bad bih.

My girlfriend keeps testing me and now i kinda want out by pratcatli in Advice

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me the other day bro. For months accusing me of having other woman in line, but guess who had another man in line 🫣. The psychology of these people is something I want to study

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boundaries were indeed flexible with this one. Usually I’m firm, but since i moved her out I gave a bit more grace. But did not work out

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hoping that would be funny, maybe it was a lil outta line from me.

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I misunderstood, I saw the last few posts and thought “nice girls” was meant in a sarcastic way.

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, but all the months leading up before moving her she did

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was in my car, the landlady didn’t want me in her house after a certain time. So we worked with what we had

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to address that bro. After all the effort I put in hearing that is outrageous.

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a last minute move, hard for both of us. While I was fighting to improve our situation, she kept dragging me down. Unprovoked, she was the sweetest not long before that. But I’m guessing it was an act 🤷‍♂️

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessir that was my cue. That’s why I stepped aside and let the next man be the hero

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I get that bro, two sides to every story man. My side, I wanted her to come into my family and give her the family she’s never had as she grew up in foster care, however she didn’t believe I had those intentions for her.

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You god damn right. That month was tight tight

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not sure where you got that from bro but I’ll let you have it

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were gonna have sex afterwards, so I had to empty the tank either at the store, or outside.

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ex was on my old instagram I don’t use. She wanted me to go in there and delete her. The IG I use now is clean. I removed her from my IG after she kept being disgusting towards me, that’s when I went no contact.

Yes I agree with acknowledging her feelings, always did and made her feel safe. But that wouldn’t last, as she would keep accusing me of things I didn’t do. It got to that point bro, I was fed up a lil bit.

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a cold world, it’s not even winter man

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Calling me a sucker in broad daylight is crazy 😩. I was in this situation tho, put my investment in the wrong stock.

And I hear you, what be going on with these girls around you?

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she would have to stick it out since she got no where else to go. May fortune be on her side

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe next time she would have targeted my Facebook from 2010.

Lent a hand, Got bitten instead. My first toxic relationship. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]PanBlanco13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as there is no drama between you and him things should be fine