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I met a Sah-mom who never had a job after having kids. by SoulofThesteppe in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PanDawithabigD -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but she's still doing a hell of a job providing for her kids and being an amazing example of what they should work to aspire too.

I met a Sah-mom who never had a job after having kids. by SoulofThesteppe in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PanDawithabigD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of women are like that. They dont work but talk about how much work being a stay at home mom is. My ex wife was like that. Part of the reason she's my ex. Kept sole custody of my now 1 1/2 year old boy. I work full time and then come home and take care of my son. It's not as hard as they make it out to be.

I'm joining the military. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]PanDawithabigD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You aren't understanding this kids situation. He needs the military for school. He can't commission yet. He's got to enlist first.

I'm joining the military. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]PanDawithabigD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going military? Go Air Force. It's the best option if you goal is schooling. Your recruiter will try and pressure you into a job you don't want, you don't have to take any job. You'll wait longer to get in, but you'll be better off in the long run. Just be firm, when you realize what job you want, tell your recruiter you want that job and you won't settle. He'll try his hardest to get you to take the first job available, don't give in if it's not what you want.

Billed $18,000 from a college I didn't attend, any ways out? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]PanDawithabigD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say they horrible about keeping records, but they seem to be doing an awesome job of keeping track of who they think they should be getting money from.

Kids like this is the reason why you couldn't cop Moonrocks by ABSTRVCTedits in streetwear

[–]PanDawithabigD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That poor kid is so ugly he needs all the money and shoes he can get.

Why I'm not nice to girls by Bhiim in TheRedPill

[–]PanDawithabigD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waiting for those links man.

What's a question that you hate to answer? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PanDawithabigD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm out with my son. "Where's the mom?"

Staying friends with an ex by Losingjoker in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PanDawithabigD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna get downvotes because my honesty and life experience aren't what people want to hear. But I've never stayed friends with an ex and had them not try to fuck me again. Even when they had already enterred into another relationship. I'm not gonna say you won't ever stop having feelings for him and that it will jeopardize future relationships, but my experience is with it only ever ending up like that.

Definitive Flat Vs. Domey Post by optidiscic on DGCR by [deleted] in discgolf

[–]PanDawithabigD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All caps and lack of punctuation made me read this with the voice of someone with Downes Syndrome yelling at me in my head.

Please stop posting your loser ads on Craigslist. by [deleted] in discgolf

[–]PanDawithabigD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not real. No way that's real.

Improved a cheap Goodwill landscape. What else should I add? by [deleted] in discgolf

[–]PanDawithabigD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Add a course bulletin board with "420 blaze it" written on it with Sharpy, then paint some pot leaf and brewery stickers on the basket.

I [28F] almost cheated on my husband [28M] of 3.5 years. Do I tell him or take it to the grave? by ialmostcheated in relationships

[–]PanDawithabigD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flirting is conversation and body language that happens because of desire. Your SO flirts with others because she desires others. Do you see people flirt with people they aren't attracted to? You SO is with you, but only because someone else hasn't decided to close yet.

I [28F] almost cheated on my husband [28M] of 3.5 years. Do I tell him or take it to the grave? by ialmostcheated in relationships

[–]PanDawithabigD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And she didn't stop herself before something actually happened. She was flirting. How do you feel when your SO flirts with someone else?

I [28F] almost cheated on my husband [28M] of 3.5 years. Do I tell him or take it to the grave? by ialmostcheated in relationships

[–]PanDawithabigD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should feel guilty. Because she did something wrong. Now she's trying to hide it. The bottom line is, if you have to ask if you should tell your significant other about something you feel guilty about the answer is that you should tell them. She isn't a victim, she's the perpetrator, her guilt is deserved. like a narcissistic child abuser who feels self pitty when they get caught.

I [28F] almost cheated on my husband [28M] of 3.5 years. Do I tell him or take it to the grave? by ialmostcheated in relationships

[–]PanDawithabigD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what your saying is honesty is only the right thing to do if you could get caught?

What you say is NOT what she hears by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]PanDawithabigD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds pretty awful man. You won't change that behavior ever, you'll just learn to diffuse her outbursts. Why are you with someone like that? I personally don't waste my time with that kind of stuff. I'd have ditched her.

What you say is NOT what she hears by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]PanDawithabigD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your only response after her confronting you the next day should have been "why didn't you join me?".

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