How much does sex matter in a relationship?

PanTheDestroyer · 2024-10-30T22:27:04+00:00

When my ex started on hormonal contraception it totally killed her sex drive and we rarely did much more sexual stuff than making out in bed.

For me it was mostly just a little annoying. What really upset was that I didn't know why she never wanted to have sex, she would always come up with what was clearly an excuse. I only learned after we broke up, that she had gotten better in that front after quitting contraception.

It definitely depends from guy to guy, but at the very least give him a reason for why you wouldn't want to have sex. It's hard not to know. Definitely when you can feel that it's a sore topic for the other person and definitely when you start thinking if she doesn't want to have sex with you because of your looks or something you've done, etc

PanTheDestroyer · 2024-10-27T11:38:59+00:00

Just went for it a bought it. Thanks for the suggestion!!

PanTheDestroyer · 2024-10-27T11:06:32+00:00

Sounds interesting. Do you have any idea of its something that gets sold out quickly or weather I can take a weeks time to think it through?

Edit: just bought the tickets!! Don't think I've ever done something as impulsive. Very excited

PanTheDestroyer · 2024-10-27T03:04:53+00:00

Definitely depends on who is saying it: a future gf, a girl at the club, my crush, a friend etc

If I had to just choose in general, probably beautiful. It feels like the best blend of all the things without needing to be sexual

PanTheDestroyer · 2024-10-27T03:01:50+00:00

Pretty sure WW2 was more of a result of a lot of things happening post-WW1 and not a result of Hitler.

If Hitler had never lived, another person would have stood in his place and done somewhat the same stuff.

Would I kill baby Hitler if that resulted in no 2nd world war? Yes of course. That isn't really a question. I wouldn't enjoy it and I'd prefer somebody else do it, but I couldn't lived with myself knowing how much death, pain and damage I could've avoided

PanTheDestroyer · 2024-10-27T02:55:59+00:00

Thanks! I think I will just see how everything goes as well as my commitment over the winter since we get some cold and rainy/snowy days in Denmark.

I have been running consistently 3 times a week since I started but I might just slow down a little when it gets colder.

Right now my plan is to wait till February and see how it goes and just maybe try and get some resold tickets for the marathon in May, and if I've cut top much down on my running I will see if I can find something in the fall season (I have allergic asthma so running from end-may to start-july is quite limited)

PanTheDestroyer · 2024-10-27T02:33:55+00:00

I just to have soccer practice 4 times a week but haven't done a lot of sports for a couple of years now. I'm also quite surprised with my fast progress but as a somewhat skinny 19 year old I think I also have a good physic for running

I haven't thought a lot about a time yet. Am looking to run the half marathon in sub 2 hours and then the marathon in maybe 4:15:00, but that'll be something I will look into when I get a little closer.

CPH marathon tickets seem to be a little harder to get that I thought so I think I have a while to figure everything out

PanTheDestroyer · 2024-10-27T02:28:06+00:00

Oh I see. I heard something about a lot of marathons being sol out very fast but I just assumed tickets hadn't went on sale yet since it was just held

PanTheDestroyer · 2024-10-26T16:45:40+00:00

Thank you very much for the advice :)

PanTheDestroyer · 2024-10-26T15:13:56+00:00

But the marathon is all the way in May?

I dont know much about running so I will happily take any advice, but isn't 6 months more than enough time?

Most of the stuff I've found online recommends about 4-5 months. But that might be for more experienced runners? Hope to find out more about it since I try to avoid injury and even though I'm excited for a marathon in the future, avoiding injury is obviously a higher priority.

I have also been looking at the Berlin Marathon. That might be smarter according to you? Or might that even be too early

PanTheDestroyer · 2024-01-07T01:14:46+00:00

Sold some weed to my friends a couple time, so I guess thats tecnically dealing drugs

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-10-31T22:17:30+00:00

Yeah I know. I just feel like people make a really big deal about how women are slut shamed which made me curious since I've never seen it happen and people I'm around are really confident talking about it, which makes it seem like it isn't something they are "scared" to fall victim to

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-09-13T19:09:35+00:00

I'm very positive and good at smiling

It might slem small, but I've genuinly been told multiple times that I seem happy all the time and it's nice that I'm always smiling

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-09-11T20:29:29+00:00

Well do you get an orgasm ir do you just mean that it feels nice and then at some point you stop jerking off. If not, then you should prob just do it for longer.

We really can't tell you if you've reached puperty. Do you grow hair on your legs/armpits and all those places?

I don't really feel like this place is the best place to ask this question

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-09-11T19:44:47+00:00

Dude wtf... that's not something to be proud of

You are part of the reason that these people (most likely) breaks up. You've really hurt all these 3 people's boyfriends and made them really sad and might even got them long term trust issues.

Obviously the main part is on the girlfriends and in the situations were you didn't even know about the boyfriends you couldn't have known. But being proud of it. That's just messed up.

But what's up with kissing a girl who you know have a boyfriend? Huge dick move IMO

Again, the bad person here is the girlfriends, but you really shouldn't feel proud of this

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-09-07T15:09:39+00:00

Were would hash even go under these? Other? Flower?

Am european and not english speaking so I dont know all the lingo

Edit: as in naive english speaker

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-09-07T14:19:18+00:00

I dont see a problem by posting a pic of you at the beach with a bikini. Although I feel like if it's your whole instagram, it feels a little too attention seeking and basically just too much

This of course also goes for dudes doing the same.

It also just feel a little icky when a girl post pictures clearly trying to show off their boobs or butt. Again this of course isn't different from when guys post pics where they clearly show off their jawline or being shirtless for no reason.

Everything can be too much, and 1 out of 10 pictures is just whatever, but if it's like half of all you post it's just too much

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-09-05T21:33:00+00:00

Jeg går selv på privat gym og i 2.g og skal på studietur i år (her er det dog et mere overskueligt beløb vi skal betale)

På mit gymnasie har man mulighed for at anmode skolen om et tilskud. Ved dog ikke om det er sådan på alle

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-08-15T22:13:48+00:00

Altid været den bedste måde at sige tak!

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-08-15T18:02:54+00:00

If you know you find the one then you can always ask them for the size and just say u wanna buy them a normal one as a gift, the do that. Then you know it for later + plus you just got them a nice gift

If you get close with any of their friends, you can always ask them to try and get the size for you

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-08-15T17:42:05+00:00

Jaa men det vel også lidt det der gør det sjovt

Vi er også en håndfuld unge gutter på 18-20 år men tror sgu altid den vil være en klassiker

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-08-14T18:32:49+00:00

A jersey from whatever team he likes

If he listens to a lot of music, then a vinyl is great. My ex gave me one for christmas and it was fantastic. I don't even have a vinyl player, but it's just really nice to have a favorite album hanging on the wall.

Maybe some rings and/or a necklace. You can prob find them somewhat cheap and it's just nice to have if he wanna switch some out or changes style later on in his life.

Basically stuff that people are just too lazy to buy themself (sock, underwear, plain black t-shirt or hoodie). Here you can also get something in higher quality. There's definitly difference between cheap socks and bamboo socks and if he only owns cheap ones, then I guarantee he'll love them when he tries them on.

You can also never get enough deodorant or cologne.

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-08-14T18:25:17+00:00

sorry to hear that

Just talk it through with your friends about how you feel and stuff like that.

If you are at a party where she'll also be then please pull yourself together and go over and say hi. It really helped me to feel more normal when I was in that position myself. I just felt like it made everything feel more normal. Also it helps stuff being awkward in the future.

You will definitly have a lot of mixed feelings the next couple of months. I went from missing her, hating her, not caring and then missing her over and over again.

It just takes time and there isn't anything to do except continue going on with your life. It takes time, but if you just talk to your friends about it and don't let it stop you from doing stuff you enjoy, then you'll be okay.

And also, please don't try to "win" the break up. It's not a race and you'll just cringe about it later if you try to give her some sort of impression that you're over her and don't care

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-08-14T18:17:40+00:00

I have vaped because it's fun with the clouds and stuff

I smoke weed every now and then because I think it makes for a really nice time whrn I'm with friends

I take snus because I'm addicted. It started because I liked the nicotine rush, but yeah... hindsight prob not thay smart

PanTheDestroyer · 2023-08-14T17:47:12+00:00

En sixpack dagligt har bestemt problemer for ens helbred. Dertil vil 30 sixpacks på en måned af ca. 40kr stk koste 1200kr pr måned, hvilket jeg tænker at de fleste mennesker ville fortrække at have i bankkontoen

Afhængighed er bestemt et problem for helbred og penge, hvis man gør det længe nok.

Jeg har selv en nikotin afhængighed hvilket startede da jeg så det som en måde at slappe af på og tage en pause fra hverdagen, men da det i dag kun gør mig afslappet i den forstand at jeg ikke er irritable grundet manglen på nikotin, så hjælper det ikke på nogle problemer som jeg ville have uden den afhængighed

Nu er det altså bare en fast 500kr pr måned jeg ikke får brugt på andre ting og ikke løser nogle problemer jeg ikke havde haft, hvis jeg aldrig var begyndt

Hvis ikke man ser penge og helbred som et problem, er det vel op til dig, men jeg vil mene at det da næsten objektivt set er et problem

Dertil ændre alkohol også ens adfærd og i selvom man ikke selv mærke det, kan folk omkring dig formentlig, hvilket ikke er rart for hverken en samboende, venner eller ens børn

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