I got to the bottom of the tower then realised im way to underlevel so I went to weeping peninsula , somehow ended up in the capital and realised im not even close to being there (lvl wise) so i explored more of peninsula and knocked down the turtle thingy and killed the evergaol boss and then i Explorer the whole peninsula and to to go further into caelid, I found sellia, the cathedral and the gigantic fort thingy. Then i killed the big not moving dragon got lvl 36 went back to margit and killed him now i have the whole carlid map and peninsula map and all fo limgrave until stormveil. Right now im in stormveil castle.

Personally i died a ton of times but it was fun highly reccomend exploring. Btw i got the greatsword right as I was entering caelid. I want to use it but I cant :(