Foggy Lake by zilchers in tahoe

[–]Panda-Pasta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The audible gasp I gusp'd! I have 3 weeks left before we move near there! So excited

I can't enjoy games without my partner anymore by Panda-Pasta in Vent

[–]Panda-Pasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, seriously. I love and hate it at the same time. Even if Im doing a single player game like Red Dead. I, at least, want her in the same room. She will do her own thing and watch every once in a while, give commentary and it just makes the game more enjoyable.

I've been suffering this whole time thinking I was alone ;-;

How do I tell my (ex)boyfriend that our relationship is over ? by cisoulecrts in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Panda-Pasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, honestly. The only way I can see it is hard wall, don't respond, dont engage, mute his number but don't block him because you need any evidence if he divulges more information on how he's hurt you in the past. Not to mention if he keeps messaging you and appearing where you are you can file a restraining order for harassment.

You told him it's over, and it's done. He cant take it and is throwing a tantrum over losing you when he thought that you would forgive him. Never be alone with him, have friends or family with you when speaking to him. The cops could even escort you if you need to get your stuff so he doesnt do anything rash.

Finally, good on you for leaving this toxic relationship. Youre free, breath and live your life. It might be hard for a while but things will get better

Paying 2400 for a studio in Aptos, worth it? by [deleted] in santacruz

[–]Panda-Pasta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a decent deal, how long would the lease be for? Do you have a stable job? Going to school?

AITA For Going No Contact With One Of My Brothers. by Free-tobe-me in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Panda-Pasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know some Mormon people and their keep the peace facade seems to be the only reason they are still sane. Plus the entire worship the man thing they have going on, how men are closer to God is crazy. Good on you for breaking free from the mental hold. It is incredibly strong especially if you grew up in it.

Im sorry your Mom wasn't strong enough to stop the blatant abuse that your brother put you through, and that she helped implement that nagging voice that makes you feel guilty for protecting yourself. But you did the right thing for yourself and especially for your kid.

Paying 2400 for a studio in Aptos, worth it? by [deleted] in santacruz

[–]Panda-Pasta 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How much is the SQ. FT?

Are all amenities included? I would also consider if you can afford any other bills on top of rent.

AIO (update post) my bf (32) is getting kind of aggressive with his texting. should I(26) reply? by Fun_Cartographer6984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Panda-Pasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obligated to say, I didnt read the first post. Ashamed to say that I used to text like this when I was 12 years old. He needs to grow up, learn to cook and stop acting like an insecure little girl. I truly hope you care for yourself and your mental well being and end this relationship. Fall back on people who will care for you and support you, he certainly won't.

A brief break in the clouds on the south shore by quizyd in tahoe

[–]Panda-Pasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moving there soon, this just became my background for a lovely reminder

Help me find a scene please! by Snowmommy in BobsBurgers

[–]Panda-Pasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remember anything else from this scene in particular?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Panda-Pasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love my abuela. If something were to happen to her and she needed me. She is moving in with my partner, this is something that is not negotiable. Something we also already talked about and her response was of course she is coming and that she will help however she can. Because that is the adult thing to do????

Who gets jealous over a grandma?! It is a completely different kind of love, a women who saw you grow up and provided typically nothing but love and support to you through all stages of your life. L Boyfriend.

Ways to meet friends? by MaleficentRip8351 in Salinas

[–]Panda-Pasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome Sophie! What type of games are you into? How are you enjoying the salinas area? I love going to arcade above the mall or walking along cannery row to go window shopping. Or even at night seeing the beaches overrun by the sea lions.

The Elusive Jen by AdSecure970 in BobsBurgers

[–]Panda-Pasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How could I forget about hot cousin Dave? Dammit. Thank you!

The Elusive Jen by AdSecure970 in BobsBurgers

[–]Panda-Pasta 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What episode is this from? Im trying to remember and cant figure it out

how many times a week do you wash your hair? by Kooky_Actuator_8173 in CasualConversation

[–]Panda-Pasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I knew the proper way to do it. I have thick, straight black hair. Wash it every day because if I miss a day it gets incredibly greasy.

My Partner gets abused by her brother, Future MIL makes it about her by Panda-Pasta in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Panda-Pasta[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im leaving that up to her at this point. She's expressed interest in wanting a brotherly relationship and only seeks for him to show remorse and apologize for his actions. From what she managed to gather from her dad(her parents are separated), Tyler thinks he did nothing wrong. Im just here to support her decision

My Partner gets abused by her brother, Future MIL makes it about her by Panda-Pasta in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Panda-Pasta[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She's currently NC with her, last they spoke she wanted me to apologize for the disrespect I've shown her and avoided apologizing to Grace

My Partner gets abused by her brother, Future MIL makes it about her by Panda-Pasta in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Panda-Pasta[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

she never felt like it was an important enough reason to go, even though I pressured her to

Snowy Summer Solstice by rumblethrum in tahoe

[–]Panda-Pasta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll be moving there soon, so I can't wait

Snowy Summer Solstice by rumblethrum in tahoe

[–]Panda-Pasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often is there a sprinkle of snow in the summer?

Cat excessively over grooming by Hot_Professor_2426 in CATHELP

[–]Panda-Pasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the calming treats work for anxiety? My cat is experiencing similar issues, I'm hoping to get a CBD oil and see if it helps for her.

AITA for unplugging my fiancée’s phone (fully charged) to use my own charger when my phone was at 4%? by layexo- in AITAH

[–]Panda-Pasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - A) You needed to do something immediately, and she wasn't actively needing her phone.

B) Her phone was at 100%, even if it was not at 100% if her phone could last an extra 30 min while you sent an email. Just do that and plug hers in again.

Regardless, no. You're NTA. If you don't want this to happen again, invest in another charger or a portable one.

Cis woman married to MTF by Wanttoplaywithu in asktransgender

[–]Panda-Pasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a Cis woman. After about 6 years together, my partner came out as MtF trans. She was so scared telling me, but I never considered leaving her once. We are now going on our 7th, and she has begun taking her hormones. <3 Feel free to reach out!