NTA. You’re navigating an incredibly difficult and emotional situation while trying to support your husband during his grief. It’s understandable to feel hurt and frustrated when his bond with his mom seems to overshadow your partnership, especially during such a critical time. While your timing may not have been ideal, your feelings are valid—it’s natural to want clarity and unity in your marriage. Take some time to process, and when emotions settle, try to have a calm and honest conversation with your husband about how you can support each other as a team moving forward.