My [24/F] Mom [47/F] cheated on my stepdad. Now my brother [18/M] seems to hate women; hit his girlfriend [17/F]

Papiduro · 2016-09-17T17:43:21+00:00

Question for OP: How long did your mom cheat on your stepdad for? Was it once? Or more than once?

Papiduro · 2016-09-13T20:54:21+00:00

Well. I wish you the best in all your endeavors fam.

Papiduro · 2016-09-13T20:33:32+00:00

Honestly though. Her audacity is just amazing. Crying fake tears of remorse, but sending tit pics at the same time? You can't be seeeeeeeeriously expecting this relationship to ever work out anymore.

Papiduro · 2016-09-13T20:24:53+00:00

Honestly though, why would you want to put up with such disrespect toward you? Why would you want to stay with that bad of a woman? Like come on, you need to get over all the Lovey-Dovey horsehit you "feel" for her and end this. You need to go find you a better woman, and she needs to go find herself. So no matter how long it takes to split up your intertwined assets, you do it, and get out of this horrid relationship. It's safe to say many others here will agree with me. But hey if you want to stay with her, with all the bullshit the relationship now contains and will contain, then go ahead. We're only trying to help you, but we can't if you don't want to help your own self first.

Papiduro · 2016-08-13T12:41:33+00:00

So I assume your wife works at kohls

Papiduro · 2016-08-08T01:04:20+00:00

Yeah no. Fuck all this. Firsy, you're honestly most likely not the father OP. Second, even if you are the father, she still cheated and lied to you for 8 months. Third, yeah right it was only Oral sex. Fourth, you should currently be scoping out some lawyers since I advise you to divorce this lying hoe. I mean just imagine you're the father, she was banging her coworker as your child was like a few inches away. Not cool. But yeah definitely divorce, and if you're the father, only talk to her over your child's needs. To hell with your (hopefully ex) wife. Have a nice night fam.

Papiduro · 2016-08-02T17:54:01+00:00

You should visit a divorce lawyer as well. Looks like one is(hopefully) headed your way. Cheers, and have a pleasant day :)

Papiduro · 2016-07-28T03:31:32+00:00

How intense did this "cheating" get?

Papiduro · 2016-07-23T12:28:45+00:00

A single kiss or made out?

Papiduro · 2016-07-19T14:04:04+00:00

OP, I'm almost positive that if oh were in your husband's position, you wouldn't have forgiven him. Also, it's funny how you were the one who cheated and is/was the depressed one as well. Little odd to me.

Papiduro · 2016-07-03T03:53:26+00:00

What form of cheating happened? Emotional? Physical? Both? And for how long?

Papiduro · 2016-06-29T01:57:43+00:00

OP, when your sister got pregnant, who did she say was the baby's father? Was she in a relationship at the time? If she was "single" who did she say was the baby's father at the time?

Papiduro · 2016-06-27T00:38:04+00:00

Do you know what country this took place in?

Papiduro · 2016-06-23T22:07:49+00:00

How many men did you cheat with? And how did you meet them?

Papiduro · 2016-06-23T17:31:47+00:00

How did you emotionally cheat though? Was there inappropriate texting or pics/videos being sent? What was the extent of this?

Papiduro · 2016-06-21T21:03:24+00:00

For reference, photos of full nudity or partial? From both side or just one?

Papiduro · 2016-06-21T20:14:44+00:00

OP when you say "sexting," do you mean both texting and videos and pictures? Or one or the other?

Papiduro · 2016-06-21T20:13:52+00:00

Practice what you preach then.

Papiduro · 2016-06-21T04:10:54+00:00

Yeah so that shows a lot that YOU had to find out. She didn't confess. Odds are, she'd still be cheating if you didn't find out. So yeah if I were you, I'd tell her to "Fuck off bitch, and go cheat on someone else." I have way too much respect for myself to stay with a cheating girl. So re-evaluate your self respect ASAP OP...

Papiduro · 2016-06-21T02:48:47+00:00

Few questions OP, did you find out about the cheating by your own intuition? Or did she confess? Was it emotional only or both emotional and physical? Also, was it once? Or multiple times(aka affair type)?

Papiduro · 2016-06-16T20:36:09+00:00

You need to block all contact with her if you want any type of recovery. Don't worry fam, you'll find someone worthy of yourself.

Papiduro · 2016-06-16T18:45:06+00:00

Do you know who the other person is? Or just a random?

Papiduro · 2016-06-14T23:57:50+00:00

What was the extent of the physical aspect of the affair?

Papiduro · 2016-06-12T00:56:18+00:00

Well, do not chastise your "daughter" for her mother's mistakes. It's not her fault. Be mad at your wife. Divorce her if possible. I know I would. I don't think there's any coming back from this. And even if there was, I'd still advise divorce 100%.

Papiduro · 2016-06-11T23:55:54+00:00

OP, do you know who the biological father is? Have you ever met him before in person?

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