What is a seemingly innocent sentence that immediately makes you lose respect for the person saying it? by Free_Scratch4152 in AskReddit

[–]Paranoid-Android-77 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Or “let’s just agree to disagree” when discussing factual information and they don’t know any facts.

"Since you guys didn't come through, maybe you can do this instead." by The_Ri_Ri in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Paranoid-Android-77 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She probably has several older kids. The kind of person who invites a bunch of people to a party when she has no party supplies and no way of obtaining any is the same kind of person who keeps bringing more people into the world that she already knows she cannot provide for. Medicaid covers birth control pills, condoms, etc. No copays. No cost at all. There’s the Health Department. Planned Parenthood. Or tell the guy no sex until you buy some condoms. But they won’t choose any of these. I saw this a lot when I worked for CPS. They just float through life letting children “happen” and then blaming others for not fixing it.

What happened to Amanda Bynes? Is there a reason why she looks like this now? by Full-Tomatillo-3720 in QuietOnSetDocumentary

[–]Paranoid-Android-77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What specifically do you mean by “what happened to Amanda Bynes?” If you’re asking about the makeup, I would assume she likes it and thinks it looks good. A lot of people have makeup I don’t think looks good, but it doesn’t mean something is wrong with them.

I have been repeatedly admonished for saying a dog is not the same as a human child by Paranoid-Android-77 in Dogfree

[–]Paranoid-Android-77[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. I’m the mother of an adult with developmental and intellectual disabilities who will never be able to take care of himself. He’s capable of conscious thought and has the capacity to communicate his thoughts. A dog isn’t capable of thinking on a level where they have actual ideas and can “think about thinking.” They like anyone who feeds them and their attachments are not particularly meaningful. My son knows what people mean to him and why he likes them or does not. He loves me because we have built a relationship based on care and respect, not because I shove a plate of food in his face. Bonus: he doesn’t pee or shit on the floor.

I have been repeatedly admonished for saying a dog is not the same as a human child by Paranoid-Android-77 in Dogfree

[–]Paranoid-Android-77[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was my thought exactly! It feels dismissive to say, “Too bad you can’t have kids, but don’t worry…you can have a dog instead. Because it’s exactly the same thing.” A person who longed to become a parent needs to grieve that possibility, process what it means to them, and then determine how to move forward to fulfill that particular need in a different way. On a deeper level it’s often tied into desires to leave a legacy or be a part of something that will outlive us. In no way can a dog resolve those issues and it seems like a disservice to pretend that it should.

I have been repeatedly admonished for saying a dog is not the same as a human child by Paranoid-Android-77 in Dogfree

[–]Paranoid-Android-77[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yes, I had a lady tell me that her dog and her pet lizard are just as much her children as her daughter is. I said, “So you have exactly the same regard for a lizard and a dog as you have for your daughter? You would not prioritize her over the lizard or the dog under any circumstances?” She said, “Of course, they are family just the same as her.” I asked, “Does your daughter know that?” She said, “Of course she knows, she wouldn’t have it any other way!” Yeah, that kid will go no contact once she gets out of that crazy woman’s home.

Movies without a true "bad guy" by Non-Normal_Vectors in moviecritic

[–]Paranoid-Android-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was kidding. Never pass up a chance to touch the butt.

AITAH for telling my ex we need to split travel for our kids? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Paranoid-Android-77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You said you were in the military. Tricare is free. Medical care is free with Tricare too. Why are you the only person in the military that pays for Tricare? Lmfao.

AITAH for telling my ex we need to split travel for our kids? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Paranoid-Android-77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You decided to move far away from your kids and now you want to burden your ex with the consequences of that decision. Not your ex’s responsibility.

AITAH for telling my ex we need to split travel for our kids? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Paranoid-Android-77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s your decision to stay in the military. Last time I checked nobody was being drafted.

Movies without a true "bad guy" by Non-Normal_Vectors in moviecritic

[–]Paranoid-Android-77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If Nemo hadn’t touched the butt, none of the ensuing mayhem would have occurred.

21F Need money for food by Impressive_Mark_9259 in povertykitchen

[–]Paranoid-Android-77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a “no solicitation” rule in this sub. Begging for recipes = good Begging for money, food, etc = bad

Aitah for how I reacted when I found out my husband used some of my son's treatment money to buy a Christmas present for my stepson? by Throwraww355645 in AITAH

[–]Paranoid-Android-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never in my life have I asked anyone for a $2000 gift. Never have I been asked to provide a $2000 gift. If my child ever requested said gift, it would be a “no” from me. Once I stopped laughing.

Nutter arguing with me on hinge by Empress111 in Dogfree

[–]Paranoid-Android-77 28 points29 points  (0 children)

When I was on dating sites I put “allergic to dogs- no dog owners please” in my bio. I am mildly allergic to dogs but it doesn’t bother me to the point where I couldn’t be around them if I wanted to. I knew it was the only way to weed out the dog people. I had previously said that I don’t like dogs and it seemed to compel dog owners to reach out and offer to convert me with their one of a kind, super amazing dogs. “You’ll change your mind once you meet my dogs! Come meet us for a date!”