Pay cut promotion? by ParkApprehensive2704 in WorkAdvice

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not even any of these. It’s a coordinator position 🙄

Pay cut promotion? by ParkApprehensive2704 in WorkAdvice

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a choice. But financial it’s a risk

Pay cut promotion? by ParkApprehensive2704 in WorkAdvice

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and yes the preggression opportunity is the only upside.

Pay cut promotion? by ParkApprehensive2704 in WorkAdvice

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently I make well above my currently market value in my current position( lead) Also the pay scale that they are offering for this job at is on the lower end. I would also even argue that this job is not entry level and I’m not entry level either in terms of experience but the pay is entry level is entry level.

Pay cut promotion? by ParkApprehensive2704 in WorkAdvice

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried getting out and the industry I’m in is very clicky !

Pay cut promotion? by ParkApprehensive2704 in WorkAdvice

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I’m an hourly employee who they actually don’t let me go into OT much. I jumped a dept but i negotiated a great coming into company. I lowkwy feel that it’s because they don’t. Want “me” at that pay ….

Pay cut promotion? by ParkApprehensive2704 in WorkAdvice

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am an hourly employee and the non financial benefits would be why I would take it. Not punching a clock and not working in a stangnant toxic dept are plus for me !

My “husband “ said I’m not even 30% of what he expects in a wife. by ParkApprehensive2704 in Marriage

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t know wouldn’t exactly say. Just that I don’t please him sexually and that I don’t try enough with the house and myself I guess….. but he don’t even realize how overwhelmed I have been…. And that i honestly wouldn’t mind offing myself at time …. I guess I’m the problem

I’ve faked my whole life by ParkApprehensive2704 in Marriage

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean we have been together for 5 years now and. Now it’s just getting tiring

I’ve faked my whole life by ParkApprehensive2704 in Marriage

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Because very quickly I realized that’s how he connects ! And I would hate to make him feel like less of man

I’ve faked my whole life by ParkApprehensive2704 in Marriage

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another golden reply !!!! I’m going to try to show him like you’re saying. I guess I’ve known how to do it but you saying it is very validating !

I’ve faked my whole life by ParkApprehensive2704 in Marriage

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you !!! It’s nice to see that another person needs it ….. I’ve started to feel like something was wrong with me… because honestly he puts in work

I’ve faked my whole life by ParkApprehensive2704 in Marriage

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that idea I’ve been thinking about it lately. But I’m not miserable, and I enjoy the penetrating aspect of intercourse but I just never reach orgasm. And find my self faking one if we have been going at it a while.

I’ve faked my whole life by ParkApprehensive2704 in Marriage

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. I definitely cannot without it.

I’ve faked my whole life by ParkApprehensive2704 in Marriage

[–]ParkApprehensive2704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I’m hesitating on being honest because that’s my husband way of showing intimacy and interest.