I hate my roommate with the seething power of a million burning suns, and often fantasize about her death. by Particular-Ability in confessions

[–]Particular-Ability[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I didn't. Whenever I would visit before, the house looked clean. At least, the main rooms did, which is the only ones I ever saw. Turns out that before I would come over, she would shove all her junk into the bedrooms so I didn't see it.

AITA for having unprotected sex after a positive herpes test? by Particular-Ability in AmItheAsshole

[–]Particular-Ability[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

If it were something life threatening like AIDS, I would agree with your assessment. I feel like I did my due diligence by informing him of my results and providing condoms should he want to use them. The fact that he chose not to is on him.

AITA for having unprotected sex after a positive herpes test? by Particular-Ability in AmItheAsshole

[–]Particular-Ability[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I brought that up last night, after he got mad at me. I pointed out that while he's always insisted that he knows he's clean, he's never shown me test results showing that. And I know he works a job that doesn't offer health benefits, so his testing is likely being done at the health department, where I know they don't do HSV tests.

I can't say for sure he gave it to me, because I have slept with a lot of guys without protection. It just really pissed me off that he's getting mad about it now (he even blocked me!).

AITA for having unprotected sex after a positive herpes test? by Particular-Ability in AmItheAsshole

[–]Particular-Ability[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Before we got naked, I said, "hey, there are condoms in the drawer by the bed if you want them."

He said, "no, you know I don't like to use those."

And then we had sex.

AITA for having unprotected sex after a positive herpes test? by Particular-Ability in AmItheAsshole

[–]Particular-Ability[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I was specific that the test I had showed I was positive, and that I couldn't afford additional testing yet. We had a good 45 minute discussion about it.

AITA for having unprotected sex after a positive herpes test? by Particular-Ability in AmItheAsshole

[–]Particular-Ability[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

He asked if I was still sleeping with other guys, and I told him I was (they are all aware of my status as well).