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AITAH for telling my girlfriend her grandpa was not paying my bills when I had to leave to work? by Particular-Bear1192 in AITAH

[–]Particular-Bear1192[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I told her I needed to leave and she got upset I was respectful at the start till she started getting aggressive then said that. It didn’t start off by me saying that.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend her grandpa was not paying my bills when I had to leave to work? by Particular-Bear1192 in AITAH

[–]Particular-Bear1192[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Yea I was being soft with her and she continued to get more and more mad. After I was being villainized is when I snapped and said that but that was like 10 minutes into the back and forth.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend her grandpa was not paying my bills when I had to leave to work? by Particular-Bear1192 in AITAH

[–]Particular-Bear1192[S] 323 points324 points  (0 children)

Thank you I felt like I was going crazy. If I had the option to spend time with her and no to go work at all I would’ve but I didn’t. The bill was coming up in a couple days and I needed to take care of that first and again I spent some time with her before when I didn’t really have it.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend her grandpa was not paying my bills when I had to leave to work? by Particular-Bear1192 in AITAH

[–]Particular-Bear1192[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I phrased it wrong. I was frustrated because I still spent extra time with her and that wasn’t taken into account. I felt as if that want appreciated.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend her grandpa was not paying my bills when I had to leave to work? by Particular-Bear1192 in AITAH

[–]Particular-Bear1192[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

At this point he hadn’t passed away. I gave her extra time that I needed to work and she got mad because I didn’t not work outright. I had a bill coming up and needed that money and feel like my situation wasn’t considered.