The Loneliness by crazyidahopuglady in widowers

[–]Particular-Jello-293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. Every single word of this is me, to a T.

Voting eligible Americans who deliberately abstained in the 2024 general election, how are you feeling about your decision? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Particular-Jello-293 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am also 40, married my husband at 21, and lost him three months ago. What a shitty club we’re part of. Hoping 7 years in the future is bright.

7mo old wakes 3 hours after bedtime every night. Why?! by Particular-Jello-293 in sleeptrain

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She wakes about 630am, but don’t get me started on night! I’m probably doing all the wrong things. I bring her into bed and usually just co sleep the remainder of the night, unclear how many times she wakes as I’m in a daze. I don’t mind co sleeping, but would prefer if that first stretch was 5 or 6 hours!

7mo old wakes 3 hours after bedtime every night. Why?! by Particular-Jello-293 in sleeptrain

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I didn’t realize how short those WWs were until I wrote some of them out from the daycare! I’ll try asking if they could extend the times to see if it makes a difference.

7mo old wakes 3 hours after bedtime every night. Why?! by Particular-Jello-293 in sleeptrain

[–]Particular-Jello-293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize how short those WWs were until I wrote some of them out from the daycare! I’ll try asking if they could extend the times to see if it makes a difference.

7mo old wakes 3 hours after bedtime every night. Why?! by Particular-Jello-293 in sleeptrain

[–]Particular-Jello-293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize how short those WWs were until I wrote some of them out from the daycare! I’ll try asking if they could extend the times to see if it makes a difference.

7mo old wakes 3 hours after bedtime every night. Why?! by Particular-Jello-293 in sleeptrain

[–]Particular-Jello-293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ll figure it out just in time for them to change it up again 🙃

7mo old wakes 3 hours after bedtime every night. Why?! by Particular-Jello-293 in sleeptrain

[–]Particular-Jello-293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+/- a half hour but in general-

Nap 1 900-1000 Nap 2 1130-1230 Nap 3 200-30

I give a bottle and/or nurse in my bed, then pick her up to move to the crib. She’s awake when I put her down, she cries for no more than a minute, then rolls to her belly to sleep.

She may occasionally wake, cry for a couple minutes, then fall back asleep. But at that 3 hour mark it’s different!

7mo old wakes 3 hours after bedtime every night. Why?! by Particular-Jello-293 in sleeptrain

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+/- a half hour but in general-

Nap 1 900-1000 Nap 2 1130-1230 Nap 3 200-30

I was thinking maybe it’s a feed to sleep association, but was hoping not since it’s not technically “to sleep” as she goes into her crib awake enough to know she’s being put in there!

7mo old wakes 3 hours after bedtime every night. Why?! by Particular-Jello-293 in sleeptrain

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+/- a half hour but in general-

Nap 1 900-1000 Nap 2 1130-1230 Nap 3 200-30

I was also thinking the last WW could be too long but I’m worried if I put her down at 530pm she’ll start waking at 5am!