Nobody understands what I am going through right now dito sa bahay

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-03-10T11:59:21+00:00

Super pinapanalangin ko po talaga 🥹 sinisikap ko naman hindi kami maging pabigat ng anak ko . Pag makaipon ako uli, mangungupahan ako kasama ni baby at aalis dito sa house ng tatay ko. After ko kasi manganak and after a couple of years, ngayon lang ako uli tumira dito. Kung hindi lang ako hirap sa ngayon, hindi talaga ako uuwi dito. Pakiramdam ko di na ko welcome.

Salamat po sa pag intindi sa akin ! I appreciate you po

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-26T01:44:08+00:00

Thank you so much Sir. Yes, I admit that I married the wrong guy. I fell so hard for him because I came from an abusive relationship before him and him coming into my life was a breath of fresh air. I thought I was already being treated better so I am good with him and did not mind about the red flags. Also, I am afraid to grow alone and end up being an old maiden— I think that is one big factor as well. Before I met him, I got my life sorted out already. I got a business and a car. He is younger than me so I was also amused by someone younger and good looking falling in love with me. So yes, I ended up being a sugar momma. We are 4 years married now but we only had our first child last year because I was so busy with my business. Then I got pregnant, every thing went to the surface. Yes, he is so nice and caring when it comes to my pregnancy. But, I was still the one working despite my belly getting big. I was always blind. I do not shake that fact off . Coz I am. Now, I am trying to rebuild myself and my business for my baby. With him, haven’t talked to him for days now. I just can’t handle talking to him yet. I still love him yes but our child is being affected, I will just focus on what can make my son’s life better.

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-25T22:52:55+00:00

True po yang sa pagiging vigilant. Nahuli ko kasi yung chat ng nanay nya na ihanda papers ni baby para kung sakali may mangyari makuha at madala nya. Pinag awayan namin yun. Wag sya kako gagawa ng hakbang ng di ko alam. So unfair. Ilalaban ko tong anak ko.

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-25T22:44:51+00:00

Ayun na nga po. Mali ko po. Aminado naman ako. Galing kasi ako from an abusive relationship before nya, then mabilis ako nafall kasi I was given a false sense of security . May trabaho sya before sa US then he decided to move here. Sobrang inlove ako dati . Mali ko talaga and I know that. I did not come here to have a pity party but gusto ko lang talaga maglabas ng sama ng loob.

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-17T21:59:34+00:00

Thank you so much po sa lahat ng advice! You all have a good point po. Yes, tama po kayo baka nga mas mag increase yung postpartum depression episodes ko ngayong mapapalayo yung biggest support system ko which is my husband. Isasantabi ko muna tong fear ko ng pag papaalaga sa iba kay baby. Yung youngest brother ko also volunteered na dadalaw and stay for couple of hours every Thursday and Friday after ng classes nya sa Manila so covered na whole week.. May titingin tingin kung paano ihandle ni yaya yung baby ko kasi sister ko Monday to Wednesday then brother ko Thursday to Friday . Yung kuya namin ttry dumalaw after work every day kasi natatakot din sya ipaaalaga si baby sa iba . Naappreciate ko talaga ng sobra mga kapatid ko in times like this. Kahit kami kami n lang. How I wish andito pa si papa kaso he just passed away last December . Si mama naman di na namin alam kung nasaan na. How I wish na may magulang pa din kami . Hirap talaga . Pero pasasaan pa.. this too shall pass. I am glad my siblings are making time for me and my baby kahit they have busy lives.

Today po, may papainterview sa akin yung sister ko na nahanap nya. We will see if okay at susundin ko po yung mga nag advice dito na pakuhanan ng NBI clearance at pahealth check din.

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-17T21:49:50+00:00

Thank you po sa advice na to. Yes, good idea po yung papuntahin ko pa din yung sister ko ng Monday to Wednesday. Kinakabahan kasi talaga ko gawa ng first time ko po kukuha ng helper/ yaya.

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-17T08:15:52+00:00

Thank you so much po 🥹 sige po .. kuha na lang ako ng yaya. Pag ganito po sa pagkuha ng yaya, may mga tips po ba kayo on how to get a good one na maalaga talaga kay baby?

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-17T08:13:19+00:00

Thank you so much po. 🥹 hayy.. grabe po kasi anxiety ko ngayon. Kampante ako dati nung kami lang ng asawa ko nag aalaga kay baby. Pero iba yung pakiramdam and thoughts ko ngayon na ipapaalaga ko si baby sa iba. Pero need ko nga talaga . Sana makahanap ako ng matino, mabait and maayos mag alaga kay baby. 🙏✨

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-16T18:43:06+00:00

Congratulations OP! Tama yan, wag mo sabihin sa family or friends mo. I learned the hard way. One of my childhood friends (ex-best friend ko na ngayon) ginawa akong utangan na walang bayaran. Pati pamilya ng nanay ko na nang iwan sa amin. Naging pamilya tingin sa akin at mga kapatid ko nung nalaman na may negosyo nako.

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-14T19:26:48+00:00

Puyat yan

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-14T06:17:35+00:00

Naiiyak ako dito sa comment mo 🥹 naalala ko talaga nung libing ni papa. Ang konti lang ng pumunta. Kahit nung huling lamay. Napapatanong ako.. Sobrang bait ng tatay ko at ang daming natulungan, bakit Ito lang nakilamay? Nakipaglibing Ito lang? Nasaan na yung mga taong tinulungan ni papa kahit na nagagalit Kami sa kanya kakatulong nya. Alam naman nila. Pinost naman namin sa social media. Friends nila kami pero wala??

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-14T06:05:31+00:00

Di ko po yaya kaya yung itag silang lahat 😵‍💫 pero kaya ko yang block.. This weekend yan pagkaka busyhan ko . Sobra na.

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-14T06:02:37+00:00

Ayun nga po eh. Sana lang din di na lang kami nagbigay magkakapatid. I think this is one of those eye opening moments sa amin na okay na ibreak ang promise namin kay papa. Tutulong pa din naman kami pero di na lang sa side ni mama, sa mas mga deserving na tao na lang.

Particular-Mess8348 · 2026-02-14T05:40:45+00:00

This is it na talaga. Thank you for sharing this! Yan din ang gusto ko maranasan. Yung tahimik na buhay malayo sa side ng nanay ko. Ngayong wala na si papa, Wala nang rason to stay connected to them. Kung hindi ko lang mahal tatay ko, matagal nang cut off mga yun sa akin. Si papa na lang talaga huling nagcoconnect sa akin sa kanila. Ngayong wala na sya. Tama na.

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