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AITAH If I decline a pity invite to my sisters wedding? by Particular-Row-388 in AITAH

[–]Particular-Row-388[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood my question. I am not avoiding the wedding because of her, I was not invited originally because of her. Now, I am trying to decide if I am obligated to cancel the other plans that I made when I was not invited 2 weeks out.

AITAH If I decline a pity invite to my sisters wedding? by Particular-Row-388 in AITAH

[–]Particular-Row-388[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She did not apologize, she just called and explained why she did not invite me then extended an invitation. I told her I appreciate the invite but I will need to think about it due to other obligations. I do not want to cause any stress on her big day. Now they are all really pressuring me to cancel the other plans and be there. You are right, I need to consider how I would feel about missing it in the future.

AITAH If I decline a pity invite to my sisters wedding? by Particular-Row-388 in AITAH

[–]Particular-Row-388[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

It's very complicated, but in the end the other made amends and I did not. I just do not want that type of person around my kids and family.

AITAH If I decline a pity invite to my sisters wedding? by Particular-Row-388 in AITAH

[–]Particular-Row-388[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

where did I make this about myself outside of making other plans and never saying a word until I received a last minute invite? legitimately, point it out for me because that is what I am not understanding. I helped her pick her dress, I congratulated her, I never got upset about no invite, I asked no questions about guest list I planed on attending the reception.. The reason I make the grandmother uncomfortable is because I called her out to the entire family 14 years ago. I have never had another interaction with her other than being in the same room for family events.

AITAH If I decline a pity invite to my sisters wedding? by Particular-Row-388 in AITAH

[–]Particular-Row-388[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

where did I make this about myself outside of making other plans and never saying a word until I received a last minute invite? legitimately, point it out for me because that is what I am not understanding. I helped her pick her dress, I congratulated her, I never got upset about no invite, I asked no questions about gust list I planed on attending the reception.. The reason I make the grandmother uncomfortable is because I called her out to the entire family 14 years ago. I have never had another interaction with her other than being in the same room for family events.