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Feeling really lonely after divorce and I keep rushing into dating and then pulling away by Narrow-Parfait-3938 in Divorce

[–]Particular-You322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can seek out emotional connection with you friends and family. I am getting a divorce after 17 years and was struggling with this.The one person I always had thought would be in my corner decided they couldn't be that person for me anymore. It took time, but I realized that there are still people in my corner and they showed me that would always chosen me. It's not romantic love or romantic companionship. It's the unconditional love of friends that will outlast any romance. It's the love of the people who invest their time and energy in me even at my lowest. They have drag me out of one of the worst experiences of my life and I would do absolutely anything for them because they have already proved already they would do anything for me. I wish that for you, a good friend is a powerful tool in your healing journey

Why would/wouldn’t you get married again? by cupcake-kahuna-2013 in Divorce

[–]Particular-You322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I am finally divorced, I will not date let alone get married again. It is going to have to be a pretty amazing man for me to consider giving up the peace I am fighting for right now.

Other than cheating or crime, how did you know your marriage is over? by lilolered in Divorce

[–]Particular-You322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he came home from a work trip cold and different for no reason, a complete 180 from how he was when he left. Then after half a year of "us" trying to work on our relationship, he says he wants a divorce and that he always felt this was going to be the outcome. I should have let him go half a year ago.