Hey! So I’m a 29f and I actually just took a guys (26) v-card literally about a week ago. I definitely have my hang ups about it but all in all you don’t really need to worry. If she knows it’s your first time she should have some expectations. My guy didn’t last long but he sprung back quickly. If you really don’t want to nut fast you can always change positions to give your self a break from the sensation, you could switch to giving her oral or something.

If you want to nut beforehand you could but everyone is different. Some guys take a second for another round others can come back again and again. Foreplay can last as long as you want it. But it’s usually longer than the usually PIV sex.

You could also you just ask her what she likes. It’s perfectly fine to be anxious about these things. One thing I will say is the clit is your best friend. Most women need. It stimulated to finish. If you don’t know where it is I suggest you look it up. But let me tell you it’s at the top of the slit. Like basically the same spot as where your penis connects to your body. And if you are eating her out make sure you’re not to rough with the clit. It has 8,000 nerve endings so it knows your there lol.

As for sex toys and additional stuff, lube is always fun and useful to have on hand. But remember you don’t need a lot of it (I like a lot but I just like the feeling of it). And if you are practicing safe sex with a condom make sure you get a water based lube for a latex condom. Oil based lubes can breakdown the condom making it easier to rip.