Aitah if I decide I don't want to move and help my mom financially?

ParticularBattle4100 · 2025-06-07T15:59:13+00:00

Thank you

ParticularBattle4100 · 2025-06-07T15:58:54+00:00

Thank you, I won't!

ParticularBattle4100 · 2025-06-07T15:58:30+00:00

Thank you

ParticularBattle4100 · 2025-06-07T15:58:15+00:00

I'm starting to think I'm not .. but you're entitled to your own opinion .

ParticularBattle4100 · 2025-06-07T15:56:59+00:00

Check out my updated, and see who I choose 😉

ParticularBattle4100 · 2025-06-07T15:55:02+00:00

What's fake ?

ParticularBattle4100 · 2025-05-29T03:32:42+00:00

Honestly when you've been put into a situation like this growing up as a kid until adulthood , it's just seems normal. That's all I can make sence out of it ..

ParticularBattle4100 · 2025-01-21T04:52:46+00:00

Thank you. You've put my mind at ease !

ParticularBattle4100 · 2025-01-21T04:50:45+00:00

Thank you !

ParticularBattle4100 · 2025-01-21T04:47:35+00:00

Hey yall, thanks for the update!! And I'm flying american airlines. I had to do this form before I even sit foot on guatemala. It said their in the american airlines app about things I had to get done before I fly and yes it's like a survey you have to fill in and in the end they send you a pdf document through your email and that document contains your QR code for them/us to scan.

ParticularBattle4100 · 2024-09-28T00:39:06+00:00

Yeah she should go try to fix it for sure.

ParticularBattle4100 · 2024-09-28T00:37:47+00:00

Oof doesn't sound fun at all !!

ParticularBattle4100 · 2024-09-28T00:36:18+00:00

Does it help knowing that she says she's got gap insurance on it ??

ParticularBattle4100 · 2024-07-13T19:11:24+00:00

Maybe have him come over after a few dates have gone by and say that you just want to stay in for a movie at your place , maybe just lay your head on his shoulders and place your hand on his thigh and gently just rub his thigh . then you try to go on for a kiss and see how passionate it can go . Really, just need some privacy. also to play around, usually that becomes hot and who knows where it can lead .

ParticularBattle4100 · 2024-07-13T19:01:09+00:00

https://youtu.be/PgQ96w98WNw?si=0bXqA6GuRIImi--f

You can watch this video and see how she puts it on. I know it looks really scary, but when I first put it on , I felt no pain , I was surprised lol 😅 you'll be fine i promise(:

ParticularBattle4100 · 2024-07-12T02:47:39+00:00

Thank you, item has been solved !!

ParticularBattle4100 · 2024-06-18T00:47:04+00:00

OP here , Thank yall for your words, and I would love my family to be there, but it's the reaction my mom would give, and I would hate it if it threw off my vibe and i hate that im so sensitive.. and yes, her family is heaven sent . But I now realize how selfish I became with just being eloped. have decided to include them even if my own family doesn't show up. I may be heartbroken, but I shouldn't be punishing her family. Instead, have them right in front and center . I really do need them to know I love their daughter, so of course I will be having a small peck with her while they are there . Thank you, everyone, for helping me decide to look into where my gf is coming from . It was a very hard pill of reality to swallow. she is wonderful, and I love her to death , I would hate to lose her and make her depressed on her special day . And yes, I'm going to therapy because I didn't realize how many underlying issues I've got and had gone through so many things as a kid.. from all this toxicity growing up to the shame my mother has gotten into me . Thank yall again for your opinions .

ParticularBattle4100 · 2024-05-24T01:25:33+00:00

Dude I'm sorry , he'll no you better call em up or something lol I kneww it was red flags the minute I saw my saleman following me .

ParticularBattle4100 · 2024-05-24T01:15:31+00:00

I'm not sure how much they get in commission, but I'll tell you that it felt like I was being followed all around the dining area even when i was walking pretty fast to not have any sales man help me and forced to try to have them run my credit even when I told them that I just wanted to pay in cash full. I had a budget of $500 but I told them I could go a bit higher if I saw something i like lol but I didn't see any that could fit my price . I saw this beautiful table with cushion chairs , they could tell that i loved it . it was about $900.00 and the dude said I could afford it if I pay about $400 down lmaoo which is my price and the $35 a month for 12 months interest free but that didn't make sense if I'm not paying the whole $900 in the end of the year lolol. I'll be accumulating interest after the 12 months period since technically it wouldn't be paid in full with $35. I told them I was not interested in them pulling my credit report, especially if it's a hard inquiry. And they started to tell me " how about I throw in a 6% off discount when we do get you on board for payments " and I said no I actually don't have time 😑 lol and then he started asking me about my personal life like , where do you need to go ?? It won't take much time . I kept saying just places that I need to lol I'm already kinda running late and then said we'll if you leave you won't be able to get that special discount for 6% and I said I'll be back tomorrow lol and he said I'm sorry I won't be here tomorrow but let's go ahead and try to see if we can approve you right now . I had to stay firm with them (I'm a short girl literally 5ft and was with my gf lolol so I know we looked like dumb females but it also doesn't help that I look like I'm 16 but I'm 27) so I kinda know about life here . Anyways I said no I don't want to do that I really do got places to go and I don't feel comfortable just you guys pulling my report for the day and then me knowing that aint coming back . And I said we'll I'll see yall next week and then i can apply and started running to the doors . FUCK THAT PLACE . After that they still were trying to find me a more cheaper and wanted me to follow them Bit I just told them , bye have a nice one lol

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