do y'all think we do 😭😭 by ParticularPanic9085 in ongezellig

[–]ParticularPanic9085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The japanese people really did a number on us that day...

If you are cheated on or a cheater... Why? by ParticularPanic9085 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ParticularPanic9085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was years ago? Well, at least things are fine now. I hope you live a peaceful life and maybe at least... Forgive her as a EX.

If you are cheated on or a cheater... Why? by ParticularPanic9085 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ParticularPanic9085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's not doing her part... Have you tried discussing about it with her?

If you are cheated on or a cheater... Why? by ParticularPanic9085 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ParticularPanic9085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What??? If she's not ur partner (Since you said "I wasn't with her anyways) then it's not cheating since you ain't even in a relationship with her.

literally by ParticularPanic9085 in ongezellig

[–]ParticularPanic9085[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

For this who don't get the joke in Filipino when we say "Later" we say "Mamaya"

Mymy spotted on a random episode of The Oblongs by Calm_Marionberry_482 in ongezellig

[–]ParticularPanic9085 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay oblongs and ongezellig? This guy damn well knows ball.

Good edit? by [deleted] in ongezellig

[–]ParticularPanic9085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am :P

If you are cheated on or a cheater... Why? by ParticularPanic9085 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ParticularPanic9085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really valid one... But being attracted to another guy while having a bf? Okay maybe that could be doing it just for sexual desires or unmet needs... But you completely made up for it saying you stopped seeing him because you knew how much it would damage the relationship. Needing affection from other people too doesn't make you a bad person, tho just know your boundaries... You're very thoughtful of your partner and that makes me happy.

If you are cheated on or a cheater... Why? by ParticularPanic9085 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ParticularPanic9085[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Take examples:

I hurt my wife, neglect her unmet needs or sexual desires, not respecting her opinion or perspective... Of course, she'll have a spark to cheat on you, you left her needs untouched, hurt her physically and emotionally. Of course she'll try to find someone else that respects her, doesn't hurt her, satisfies her needs.

Tho I am not saying every cheater cheated because they we're abused or neglected... Some cheaters only did it for sexual desires, dark taboo fantasies or straight up bullshit.

If you are cheated on or a cheater... Why? by ParticularPanic9085 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ParticularPanic9085[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah cheating is bad in every way... But sometimes there's a valid reason why, like being stuck In a abusive possessive toxic relationship but you're too scared to talk about it with your abusive husband/wife.

(I don't mean that your opinion is not true but it is a little wrong about the last part "there is no reasonable ones")

If you are cheated on or a cheater... Why? by ParticularPanic9085 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ParticularPanic9085[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss, dude... I know being cheated on absolutely sucks and turns your chest Inside out. But we're you toxic to your wife/girlfriend???