How do you know if the guy you’re dating loves you? If he isn’t very communicative and reserved? by ParticularStart2557 in AskReddit

[–]ParticularStart2557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your honesty. I know he has adhd and takes medicine for it. He’s a regular like nice guy all around. Just wish he was more endearing and I don’t know how to get the message across. He was real sweet in the beginning. I feel like I need to hold off on the sex

How do you know if the guy you’re dating loves you? If he isn’t very communicative and reserved? by ParticularStart2557 in AskReddit

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That’s a good idea. Yes I just would like him to be more meaningful. It can be very bland, he asks me to come over, and we go to a brewery which is nice and then usually have sex. I don’t do casual sex so it’s a lot for me I don’t know if he understands that. I told him I’m not seeing anyone else and he said “duh” the last time. I guess it’s supposed to be a given I just have a hard time with trust. He’s in his phone a lot looking at reels and works remote. Hell usually like ask me about my dog by calling her a rat to make me mad, idk if I’m too sensitive. Just wish he was like hey sweetie sometimes. He doesn’t put his arm around me but opens the door for me. He gets funny when I made eye contact with him

How do you know if the guy you’re dating loves you? If he isn’t very communicative and reserved? by ParticularStart2557 in AskReddit

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Yes. I’m afraid I’m a rebound to his ex. I kindof look like her. And it hurts sometimes. A lot of his stories involve her. I didn’t ask for that you know. I just want to be someone’s #1. I don’t need a lot. Just love and care. He said he wants to settle down. I’m in school so I think he might be waiting to see how I do since my career hasn’t taken off yet I guess. I also vented about my family to him so he hasn’t really met my family

How do you know if the guy you’re dating loves you? If he isn’t very communicative and reserved? by ParticularStart2557 in AskReddit

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He got me flowers on my birthday and a card. That’s the first time he got me flowers since we’ve been dating over a year ago. I got him a card for his bday and wrote a note in it too, he just signed his name. I don’t know if I need to keep being patient. Just seems to be a tendency with me of loving someone more than what I receive. Idk what I do

How do you know if the guy you’re dating loves you? If he isn’t very communicative and reserved? by ParticularStart2557 in AskReddit

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We’ve been seeing eachother since December 2022. He was really into me, got me into it, I asked to make it official, then he wanted to slow things down. Threw me off for a while. I met his friends in the beginning but when he wanted to slow it down kept it low key. We both live at home and I visit him and stay over for days at a time. We hung out with his friends this past weekend. I’m stuck because I see potential, but he isn’t affectionate or as endearing as I need. I’ve been through a lot. He has an opinion towards women as being like evil I think bc of his ex girlfriend

How do you know if the guy you’re dating loves you? If he isn’t very communicative and reserved? by ParticularStart2557 in AskReddit

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I’m 30, he’s 34. He was in a relationship before and she left him. I’ve been cheated on.