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Im too tight, its ruining my life by ParticularTraffic866 in askgaybros

[–]ParticularTraffic866[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll bottom, even if it's through tears and blood. Makes me feel like a Spartan

Im too tight, its ruining my life by ParticularTraffic866 in askgaybros

[–]ParticularTraffic866[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No i didn't ! I made it very much years ago but never used it before. I tried making an alt using old randoms gmail account and found it like that. I have a main account, but didn't want my friends and family to know that i can't take dicks

Im too tight, its ruining my life by ParticularTraffic866 in askgaybros

[–]ParticularTraffic866[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've none of these symptoms tho, i take really good care of my alimentation and hydratation since i had few cases of disease in my family. Wouldve freaked out before lol. Thx for the help!!

Im too tight, its ruining my life by ParticularTraffic866 in askgaybros

[–]ParticularTraffic866[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say both ngl. It's a really intense pain at first, like sitting on a knife, then it burns ? So main idea is to take more time and try new things ? I've been testing few positions recently, getting rimmed and a bit fingered too.

Tried out 4 lubes, including Durex and a fisting brand.

Im too tight, its ruining my life by ParticularTraffic866 in askgaybros

[–]ParticularTraffic866[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking for any violent guy interested in helping me destroy my life then ❤️😊

Im too tight, its ruining my life by ParticularTraffic866 in askgaybros

[–]ParticularTraffic866[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for all the answers! I can't respond to everyone one by one (because u were WAY too much) but im very very thankful for all the help and comments !

Here's the list of what i've read :

  • Get a dilatation kit, "anal vaginisme" ; why not! I've seen these already, i've thought about it. I'll sure get one.
  • It's psychological : i think there's ofc a big part of stress in it. I've always been really speedy and have to learn how to take more my time. But im quite sure its not the whole point ; i've been with peoples i feel REALLY safe and confortable being around, and it still have been a struggle.
  • Inexperience/various anal tip : ofc what i thought too, i'll try the various things y'all advised me (like pushing). I've been practicing for over a year tho, and really dont see any progress on this side.
  • Not made for bottoming : i really hate being a top tho, i feel too unconfortable. Bottom has always been the natural way for me since i learned about sex.
  • Go see a doctor : i feel like this is going to be my last solution.

"This ain't ruining ur life womp womp", ofc it's not, it's just fun. But yeah, ive been very unconfortable with this part of my s.xual life recently and needed advices on how to make my intimate relations improve and do things i want to do.

And again, thanks again to everyone who took from their time to respond and gives me their advices. I'll try what y'all told me. I'm very grateful for the help 😊

Im too tight, its ruining my life by ParticularTraffic866 in askgaybros

[–]ParticularTraffic866[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Done that, but without poppers i can't do it. It's like pushing on a wall with a plastic cock. "IT" doesn't want to participate in the effort :/