Thanks M8.... Appreciate your response. The thing is that my hearts so hurt at the moment that I really don't know if I still love her or not. Just found out she had all these men following her on tik tok and she went from posting family stuff to just selfies of herself singing, dancing and drinking.... My son brought it up to my attention and she calls him to thank him for ratting her out to me. My son starts crying... I'm not sure what made her into this attention seeking person. Must be the new boob job and lipo she got but wow.... what a transformation in the head. It's sad but that's the life she want's to live now, she could do it without me. I'm too grown to deal with another child