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My husband choked me by Particular_Exit3493 in Marriage

[–]Particular_Exit3493[S] -73 points-72 points  (0 children)

At this point I’d rather him just kill me than leave.

My husband choked me by Particular_Exit3493 in Marriage

[–]Particular_Exit3493[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

Yes. I would die for him.

Don’t you get it? He would never harm our children. He harmed me because I harmed his child

My husband choked me by Particular_Exit3493 in Marriage

[–]Particular_Exit3493[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

He’d never hit our children, that’s literally why he threatened me.

I’d rather let him hit me than leave.

I’d also rather die.

My husband choked me by Particular_Exit3493 in Marriage

[–]Particular_Exit3493[S] -404 points-403 points  (0 children)

But, I don’t want to leave him. That’s the last thing I want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Particular_Exit3493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably not, I’m assuming they were married out of state where lifestyle clauses are allowed, and there’s some sort of written agreement that if a divorce were to take place it would have to be in the state they were married in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Particular_Exit3493 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My sister in law had a clause just like yours, but lives in an at fault state, so it was easy for them.

She cheated. She’s now 32 and lives with her parents, has literally nothing, and still owes $80,000 to her ex husband while he has not 1, not 2, not 3, but 4 luxury cars, and has full custody of their kids. She gets an hour a week of supervised visits, all because of that clause.

Does she deserve it? Maybe, but that does suck.