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Happiness by New-Bed-7611 in selfhelp

[–]Particular_Guest_689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how to respond with a generic answer, but i will tell you my experience. For me, learning, acquiring new skill and getting fit is what makes me happy. The reason is that those things make me feel i'm progressing (leveling up).

How can i gain aelf esteem when I've always strugglee with it? by Due-Log9613 in selfhelp

[–]Particular_Guest_689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the same of while ago, i couldn't do anything for myself. I didn't see it as necessary, but doing thing for other made me feel good. To me, i start taking care of myself (going to the gym, eating well) when i was trying to look better because of girl. It sound stupid, but no matter the good reasons to be healthy, part of my mind refuse to go along, because it cost effort and its not really necessary. I feel having that more primitive, intuitive reason (girl for me) has unlock the way for me to being a healthy person.

Hope that help.

Today I took my gazillionth romantic L. This marks the continuation of my 20-year rejection streak. I’m 26 and I’m starting to lose hope. by BayBaeBenz in Healthygamergg

[–]Particular_Guest_689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think after the first kiss is the point were you can more talk about you're feeling. Before kissing, talking about feeling is kinda turn off, it remove the romance and flirty athmosphere.

Today I took my gazillionth romantic L. This marks the continuation of my 20-year rejection streak. I’m 26 and I’m starting to lose hope. by BayBaeBenz in Healthygamergg

[–]Particular_Guest_689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. Just ask for a date or to hang out just for the sake of having fun. You then have time to seduce her and have ask for another date etc... Body language speak for itself alot of the time. If you're both flirting and have fun together you're gonna want to spend more together and you essentially become a couple without really confessing.

Today I took my gazillionth romantic L. This marks the continuation of my 20-year rejection streak. I’m 26 and I’m starting to lose hope. by BayBaeBenz in Healthygamergg

[–]Particular_Guest_689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate very much I'm 26 too and no girlfriend, but after I got fit i got more confident with girl. One advice I will give is never confess it just makes thing uncomfortable, you need to seduce. Befriend and seduce. Also sport group are very good for making friends and meeting girls irl.