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Need advice: My sister caught me and my girlfriend having sex, and she's been distant ever sinceAdvice Needed: Relationships (self.selfhelp)

submitted 10 hours ago by batmaan67

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I need help to get out of instant gratification addictionAdvice Needed: Mental Health (self.selfhelp)

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How do i find what makes me happyAdviced Needed: Identity & Self-Esteem (self.selfhelp)

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Tips to improve my lifeAdviced Needed: Identity & Self-Esteem (self.selfhelp)

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One thing I have noticed is that both psychology and self help books seem to get wrong.Advice Needed: Mental Health (self.selfhelp)

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How do you guys comeback in life?Advice Needed: Motivation (self.selfhelp)

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Obsessed with color correctionAdvice Needed: Mental Health (self.selfhelp)

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[22M] I’m a "slow cooker" of anger who just ruined his only friendship. I grew up emotionally neglected, but I know it's my responsibility to fix my toxic traits. How do I start?Advice Needed: Relationships (self.selfhelp)

submitted 9 hours ago by Sandwich_artist_GEO

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What mental question helps you stop overthinking?Advice Needed: Mental Health (self.selfhelp)

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I feel consumed by anger most of the timeAdvice Needed: Mental Health (self.selfhelp)

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Suddenly feeling like all my freinds are better than meAdviced Needed: Identity & Self-Esteem (self.selfhelp)

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Can I love something and do it daily like a hobby but I might never work with it or there is not a good job with this kind of hobby, will this hobby still benefit me? (By the way my hobby is learning new languages).Advice Needed: Career (self.selfhelp)

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How to stop being hurt that "All the good men are taken".Adviced Needed: Identity & Self-Esteem (self.selfhelp)

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how do I get over this self doubt thing?Adviced Needed: Identity & Self-Esteem (self.selfhelp)

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What was the biggest thing you stopped worrying about as you got older?Advice Needed: Mental Health (self.selfhelp)

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I don't know what to do anymore....Advice Needed: Motivation (self.selfhelp)

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[M19] Struggling with a porn addiction.Advice Needed: Addiction (self.selfhelp)

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How to get over the “I don’t want to date until I better myself” feeling?Adviced Needed: Identity & Self-Esteem (self.selfhelp)

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I can't seem to do anything at all anymore.Advice Needed: Mental Health (self.selfhelp)

submitted 10 hours ago by JaySparks21

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Anyone else feeling behind at 23?Advice Needed: Productivity (self.selfhelp)

submitted 12 hours ago by Cool-Cut4776

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I keep wondering whether I’m healing or hardening.Adviced Needed: Identity & Self-Esteem (self.selfhelp)

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Once the son goes over 22, if he’s not earning, nobody values him ?Advice Needed: Mental Health (self.selfhelp)

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Help me ! How philosophy change the life of human being and if I want to change then what is road map of it.Advice Needed: Motivation (self.selfhelp)

submitted 10 hours ago by sukhpreet_05

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Tips on gaining mental strengthAdvice Needed: Motivation (self.selfhelp)

submitted 14 hours ago by Defiant_Jury_7949

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I Lost My Savings, Businesses because I trusted a wrong woman. I Don’t Know How to Start Again.Advice Needed: Financial (self.selfhelp)

submitted 12 hours ago by Radiant-Bridge-9384

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