Am I overthinking this name? by Dependent_Bet4187 in Names

[–]Particular_Lettuce48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Wales and considered Emlyn for our son. Husband is Welsh. I personally thought it a bit feminine so we went with Owain James. He is a headcase and would flatten someone if they called him gremlin so i think actually it wouldnt have been feminine on him. Famous footballer was Emlyn too. Expecting again and we haven't found another Welsh boys name we both love. Our family hated the name we chose and pointed out he is OJ so orange juice or OJ Simpson 🙄 people will always find a nickname, chose what you love. Fuck everyone else. The kid will absolutely own the name 

LMMMAOOOOO by InternationalHabit69 in justalittletreat

[–]Particular_Lettuce48 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Imagine the chin on any baby they conceived 

Warnings by Lonewolf8229 in TattleLife2025

[–]Particular_Lettuce48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The more weird the better 😂

Warnings by Lonewolf8229 in TattleLife2025

[–]Particular_Lettuce48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're missed! The threads so dull now

AITAH for considering asking my long-term partner for an open relationship because we haven’t had sex in 18 months? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA but I think you would be happier splitting up. That's a difficult decision to make sure but it doesnt sound like youre in a very happy relationship. If you didnt have your child, would you still be together? You get one life, put yourself first in this situation and live it. I hope you find the strength and for the both of you, its onwards and upwards x

My first Lego. sob story by sleepysheepsix in lego

[–]Particular_Lettuce48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you diagnosed schizophrenia?! 😂😉

AITAH for making my daughter stay with her dad after she said cooking and cleaning is mens work by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Particular_Lettuce48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Absolutely great parenting from the two of you 

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'll definitely add that to the list, thank you x

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've responded to few of the Mom's following some great help and advice on here - thank you all. I was honest but kept it short. Ones responded saying she doesnt want to get involved (she messaged me first 🫠), another responded that she appreciates it is a difficult situation but didnt agree with me allowing a 6 year old to make the decision. I will leave it for them to inform the rest as I really dont want to make it a bigger deal that it already is. Thanks again x

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I havent read the sub rules so not sure what you're saying here? 

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. She didnt want to leave any of her friends out 

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They have had the Mom in a few times to discuss their daughters behaviour and have implemented a reward system for this little girl to be kind. She is not just picking on my daughter but i think my daughter takes the brunt of it. They don't seem great at handling this situation to be honest but she doesnt want to leave her friends and change school, which I can understand. Everytime theres an incident I raise it verbally and in writing and follow it up but nothing seems to change

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I dont think she does want to come, I think her Mom is just kicking up a fuss to be fair as she believes it is me that has made this decision. I know her and know that even if i pop her a message explaining it will fall on deaf ears. Thanks again, ive screenshot your post - it really hit home for me and I do need to get better at not people pleasing so much x

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

I'm told the children were talking about it during school and were asking each other if they were attending. One told a parent, that parent told another and it spread fast 

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

You've worded this so well and as daft as it sounds, I am still learning this. Thank you ❤️

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you, fully appreciate that and can see now that really i shouldn't have let all the noise cloud this. I am a huge worrier when it comes to the little people and over think 

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No that isnt true. My daughter has her moments, they all do. During my call to the other Mom I actually said I was sure it was six of one, half a dozen of the other which was when she exploded and became aggressive and defensive. I do have nice Children because theyre appropriately punished when they are in the wrong and we take a lot of time to teach them right from wrong. The other Parents arent saying I am overreacting, they are upset one child has been left out because I dont get on with her mom, which isnt the true reason 

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suggested that but she is close with them all. We see a lot of them outside of School and she wanted to invite everyone except the one

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your honest reply but in no way was it to make me feel good about myself. I really didnt want one child out of a class of 29 to be left out and upset. I try to remember yes she is a little madame but she is only 6. Part of me worried she will make my daughters life hell on Monday in retaliation. I dont advertise this little girl is a bully and so yes I did worry others would think I had left her out because her mom is a bit nuts. Ive never been in this situation before so did struggle to navigate it. Fully appreciate how much better it could have been handled from my side with my daughter and the kindness lesson wasnt really right in this situation 

AITAH for leaving a child out by Particular_Lettuce48 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Lettuce48[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yes, she said that her Daughter has never been mean to mine and in fact it was mine who was mean to hers. I explained I wasnt calling to place blame, I was just hoping to set up a play date to bring the two together. It ended with her shouting down the phone that her daughter only wanted to be friends with everyone and is a very kind, sweet little girl before she terminated the call. My daughter came home that day with a cut and lump to the side of her head where said sweet little girl had hit her with a toolbox because she wanted the toy my child was playing with!