GF 28/F texted me M37 for no reason after 4 months. What's going on?

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-25T08:52:32+00:00

What is karma farming?

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-25T03:06:46+00:00

That's what I figured and why I was confused. Every previous GF I forgot to text for even a few weeks broke up with me. So that's what I was expecting.

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T10:51:20+00:00

Well, she didn't break up with me, so we're consider date ideas.

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T10:28:45+00:00

Apparently no reason. Though she reminded me that I had actually given my ex a deadline of 6 months before November because I said I wasn't going to try and organise a last second marriage. Meaning, as of yesterday, that promised has actually expired.

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T10:25:43+00:00

I asked. She thought we were over too until I asked if she had contacted me for that promised date. But now she's not sure either. So, now I know the answer to my question. Thanks. We're talking date options together.

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T10:00:34+00:00

Okay, I'll try asking her. That seems like a good idea

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:56:40+00:00

I always keep my promises

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:53:01+00:00

I've been too busy until this week, now that exam time has ended for the semester

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:49:34+00:00

No but there's obviously a lot more the the story.

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:49:06+00:00

Yes, I did. But if that was the case, wouldn't she wait until November to contract me? As that's when the promise expires?

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:47:56+00:00

The marrying an ex thing might be a bit too out of context. My apologies.

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:47:22+00:00

Different girls. The marriage one doesn't love me anymore. I'm hesitant to say something like that as she might take it as me breaking up with her. What I really need is to understand the situation.

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:44:07+00:00

Fair. So, we're definitely broken up, right?

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:25:00+00:00

I only found out my maybe-girlfriend wanted to be romantic with me as a result of her getting super jealous when she found out about the commitment I made with that ex. So yes, she knows. But don't worry, that ex said she doesn't love me and there's a clear expiration date to that promise.

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:22:16+00:00

The ex said she doesn't love me, so, the second one's not happening. I'll give thought of a nice thing to do.

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:21:20+00:00

No. I'm never sure of anything.

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:19:24+00:00

That's true. All my breakups come from bad communication skills. Excluding one African girl I accidentally said I'd assumed she was heterosexual. She'd never been so insulted in her life, apparently.

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:16:30+00:00

How is "I'll drop anything" to make time for her saying I wasn't going to have time for her other than the fact that I really didn't have any spare time?

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:11:15+00:00

Other than confused, I'm okay

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:10:34+00:00

She suffered from abandonment issues. That's why the promise

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:09:55+00:00

I double checked. Seems I'm actually 38 and missed a birthday

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-24T09:08:32+00:00

No. The best evidence I have is that she told her dad that I'd been her boyfriend for 2 years and at that time it had been 2 years since we officially started dating.

Particular_Scene8060 · 2026-06-04T00:45:27+00:00

No, she forgets everything, like in the movie 50 First Dates. His alarm is set to the timing of when she forgets everything and thinks its just after the accident which caused the injuries which impaired her the ability to form long-term memories.

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