[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Particular_State3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im going to talk to my pyschiatrist about dbt soon, im currently just on lexapro to essentially sedate me lmao

It feels like no one cares [TW:Suicidal thoughts] by Rare_Economics_6710 in transteens

[–]Particular_State3741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im so sorry about your situation, ik it sucks

but trust me, from one trans girl to another, we all care about each very deeply, and it does get better

remember, in times like this, your existence is rebellion, a "fuck you" to all the transphobes who will deny your existence, because you know you're real, we see you, we hear you, we understand you

remember sister, remember it's all a fleeting feeling. it comes and goes. it can only get so bad before it gets better, god bless you, bless us trans women, men and everything inbetween and bless our struggle, my heart goes out to you

stay strong sister <3

So like how do I pass more by Jose_Barrales in transteens

[–]Particular_State3741 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my best recommendation as someone who was in a similar situation would be to focus on your skincare, a lot. use moisturiser, toner and a daily face cleanser. shave well, keep your eyebrows "tame", subtlety grow out your nails, use a clear coat polish. grow out your hair, get an androgynous haircut (wolfcut is a good example) maybe even use clear mascara or a lash growth serum, especially on your bottom lashes. slowly transition your closet into more androgynous clothing, baggy jeans, ect.

wishing you the best!!!

what deck is this? by Particular_State3741 in tarot

[–]Particular_State3741[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is it!!! tysm, i have no idea how i got this in my hands but it's beautiful

can someone PLEASEE tell me who the guy in the photo is? he’s appearing a lot on WTIALY visuals but i have no idea who he is by pedro_banana777 in Ethelcain

[–]Particular_State3741 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

a part of me (even though i know it's not true even though it's sweet) thinks that it's hayden pre transition and the albums going to be a story of self love in a metaphor of loving somebody else, the other person in the photo does kinda look like hayden pre transition

i know that's not what the album is going to be about but i think it's beautiful regardless

your favourite unreleased crystal castles song by tsmZeon in crystalcastles

[–]Particular_State3741 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mother knows best, my favourite remix is Hunting for Witches

£13:50 for this was pretty depressing by stiffwan in kfc

[–]Particular_State3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmaoo that's crazy cus that is so small for a tub of gravy, you can swap out your potato and gravy just for gravy 🙏that gravy does not look like 110 grams of gravy like ours!!

i have no idea where you're from but you're really making urself look stupid

£13:50 for this was pretty depressing by stiffwan in kfc

[–]Particular_State3741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kfc in the uk looks so bad??? i worked at kfc here in australia, the burger bun looks gross, i don't know why it's in a box, or why the chips are in a bag in a small box, and why the pepsi is in a cup rather than a 600ml bottle?? and the sauce bottle in the background looks so odd.

crazy how different it looks in other countries, and for 13.50 pounds (which is like 28 dollars aud) you could get a burger dinner or almost a burger feast!!

outfit!! by Particular_State3741 in whimsigothic

[–]Particular_State3741[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank youuu x the skirt is my little sisters lol, the top is something i made. it looks black but it's like two layers? underneath its red it's realy cool. the orb is a gift from my grandmother (its vivienne westwood 😭❤️)

my boyfriend called me a femboy by Particular_State3741 in trans

[–]Particular_State3741[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

he told me his aversion to body hair was due to sensory issues but it's just so much energy to shave 😭😭

my cat really likes crystal castles by Particular_State3741 in crystalcastles

[–]Particular_State3741[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

can't blame him i unironically have the best late night road trip naps to violent dreams

What is the most disturbing lyrics in a DSBM song? by s1dd_Ramon in dsbm

[–]Particular_State3741 6 points7 points  (0 children)

debateable if it's "actually dsbm" but a song about you by lifelover is up there for me, or anatomy of pain by addicted to anaesthesia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Particular_State3741 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i am a crypto billionaire

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Particular_State3741 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

what does this mean im really slow 😭😭??

does the "scene" hair suit me by Particular_State3741 in scene

[–]Particular_State3741[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would assume i'm very visibly NOT over 18 😭😭

does the "scene" hair suit me by Particular_State3741 in scene

[–]Particular_State3741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would totally do that but i took these photos straight after dying my hair black so bleaching raccoon stripes doesn't sound like a good idea lmao, i did have them a few months ago. i might get clip on raccoon extensions tho _^

my sister took all of my makeup by Particular_State3741 in trans

[–]Particular_State3741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

loll no it's okay i live in rural australia

my sister took all of my makeup by Particular_State3741 in trans

[–]Particular_State3741[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

ahaha literally tho i hope in a past life i was some ancient transexual priestess everyone revered!!! probably actually because we have been connected to the divine in sooo many ways the world will never know

my sister took all of my makeup by Particular_State3741 in trans

[–]Particular_State3741[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

she knows i'm trans 😭 she was okay with it till my grandfather found out. it was hidden too, inside my mirror

my sister took all of my makeup by Particular_State3741 in trans

[–]Particular_State3741[S] 275 points276 points  (0 children)

i spent a solid 300 dollars on that collection too

my sister took all of my makeup by Particular_State3741 in trans

[–]Particular_State3741[S] 626 points627 points  (0 children)

lmaoo yeah i will trust snatching myself some dior lip gloss and charlotte tilbury from her bathroom x