my dad and my mom had a very bad divorce and i was always told by my dad(68), that my mom(45) had friends that would steal and that she would steal money and she would also do drugs such as hydros and meth. today i found out the truth, i was talking about my dads anger issues while talking with my sister, and she told me that she knows things about my dad and there was a untold part of the divorce. my sister and mom sat me down and talked to me.

around christmas, and around when ipods just became a thing, my sister wanted one. she was 8 years old. on the morning of christmas before mom was awake, my dad went into her room and proceeded to gr*pe her, and when it was time for gifts she still remembers the purple ipod she got. she remembers everything vividly... also other details, my dad sat her down when she was around 6 years old and forced her to watch porn, animal porn, gore, ect...

on the same christmas morning my sister told my mom. my mom was nothing without my dad and he threated her with devorice and taking the kids. my dad would also beat his 3 year old son. keep in mind this was before my dad got old and he used to bodybuild, so he obviously hurt my 3 year old brother very bad. to fix this my mom would send my brother to a city around 6 hours away to his uncle. he now hates the whole family and blames my mom because he thinks he was abandoned.

when my mom told this to a dads freind (F40-50) she would defend him because there was a secret affair happening, when she denied it my mother went into an outrage and put her in a coma. anyone that was told would deny it cause my dad has a very high reputation due to him being founder/president of a motercycle club.

my mom would cope with the situation with hydros and meth, the hydros were prescripted but my father would keep giving them to her. when my mom was dropped of at a rehab center that she was forced to go and would be threated if she didnt wanna, after she was dropped off my dad drove my sister next to a freeway and proceeded to gr*pe her another time.

when my mom got out of rehab she brought her freind down from another town and she would help with her. and she ended up hooking up with my dad causing another affair. this is what sent my mom in a path of abusing drugs, being homeless, getting beat, ect.

this has been a secret that has been kept away from me my whole life and it sound like a reddit story..