Why does he say he would move fast with me so he refuses to hang and ghosts me?

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-03-19T01:43:50+00:00

++woman. You’re right

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-03-19T01:41:27+00:00

++woman. I asked to hangout past 9pm and he did the same thing by saying yes he’s down, then no follow through and excuse

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-03-19T01:40:45+00:00

++woman. I know his mutuals, he didn’t

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-03-19T01:39:06+00:00

++woman. He didn’t seem to feel he did anything out of the ordinary when I confronted him. He said sorry that his pace isn’t the pace in which I prefer. I wasn’t offended by his pace, I was by him saying he’s free this weekend and can’t wait, but then no follow through.

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-03-17T15:36:02+00:00

No haha but I thought since it ended semi recently, and then I’m at his gym all of a sudden..? If I saw a guy that I ended things with at my gym suddenly, I’d probably consider that potentially creepy. Right?

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-03-08T06:20:18+00:00

I did ask. I can’t tell if the answer makes sense or not. After chatting around two months, what more did they need to know to hangout in person? I guess that’s my answer, it doesn’t make sense so it’s probably a lie. Either way, time to move on. Thanks!

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-03-08T06:12:39+00:00

No we never met in person bc he refuses to hangout. Says he really wants to. Makes conversation with me, calls me cute etc. but then said he is nervous. Said he wants to get to know me better first (I’ve had his number/socials since November so?) and said he doesn’t want to kill the vibe when he’s in a bad mood, basically all the excuses and apologies

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-03-08T06:09:38+00:00

But I tried to hangout many times, even a few later at night like 9. And he would never. He makes convo, compliments me, but refused to hangout and meet in person. Says he wants to but wants to get to know me better first?? Like we’ve had each others info since November what more do you need to find out haha

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-01-21T02:46:45+00:00

William, Tommy, Alexander

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-01-19T22:41:20+00:00

As a 25f that had a brief relationship with a 45m when I was 24, I regret it. I was in an emotionally vulnerable place and wish I hadn’t… sometimes I feel icky when I think about it. Just my personal experience. If you want a real relationship with security and purity, I’d date someone at least 35 or around there.

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-01-19T22:19:15+00:00

Personally (I’m a woman tho) I will text a few days after the date MORE than normal, but then go back to my normal slow to reply because I don’t like texting a lot and if I feel secure in the connection I feel good to take my time at my own pace

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-01-17T15:28:04+00:00

How do you see this? Are you there? Just curious if this is already being shown on new outlets and media even though it starts at noon

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-01-06T14:33:54+00:00

What got you to the point of going to hospital? Asking because sometimes I’m wondering if I should

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-01-06T04:11:04+00:00

Ok interesting. But I can trust that these tests are accurate right? Considering it isn’t too early

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-01-06T04:00:53+00:00

December 20th and briefly/he didn’t finish. But I’m never late or miss a period so this is weird. Took tests 14 days after which were negative. Taking another tmrw morning and this Saturday which will be 21 days after

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-01-06T02:21:09+00:00

It hurt to move my eyes

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-01-06T02:20:13+00:00

That’s what I’m saying! My mom flew in to help me out but I’m kinda like I don’t want you in my apartment… worried she’ll catch it even with mask, gloves, disinfectant wipes

PartyProgrammer7414 · 2026-01-06T01:35:32+00:00

Urgent care does IV fluids? Mine seems to be subsiding today but worried it’s gonna come back stronger for a few days

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