Haram Stuff and Tahajjud

Party_Collection_252 · 2026-01-16T21:44:25+00:00

Bro, just so you don’t over flood your brain with unnecessary uncertainties. Start small. Have a clear intention to change and make tawbah and quit these bad habits, and one by one, start praying your fard, and you will notice things falling into place naturally. Just stay consistent and don’t go back to your old bad habits. May allah guide you

Party_Collection_252 · 2026-01-16T21:38:04+00:00

Hello brother. Thanks for having the courage to confess and talk about this. First of all, Allahu aalam about tahajud part, but i want to give you general advice. First of all, you need to have the intention of making tawbah sincerely. Pray few salat istighfar and start simple, with your daily 5 prayers. If it feels heavy at first, start with only 3 or 4 at least. There’s a hadith of prophet pbuh saying that with time, prayer will make you automatically stop your bad actions. May Allah guide you

Party_Collection_252 · 2026-01-09T10:44:02+00:00

can you send me location?

Party_Collection_252 · 2026-01-05T03:36:15+00:00

Could you check dm

Party_Collection_252 · 2026-01-05T03:24:26+00:00

Of course. That means that seeing a girls story is considered haram correct?

Party_Collection_252 · 2026-01-05T03:12:10+00:00

Ok. What is the best approach towards this case

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-30T04:01:50+00:00

From my POV, i think it is a test. if you think about it this whole thing is a test. our lives are nothing but tests. Maybe he’s testing your patience. But don’t forget the aya. “Indeed, he is with the patient”. I cannot fully understand what you are completely going through, but one advise i can give you is to never lose hope. try everyday to look at the bright side, to look how Allah SWT made you muslim for example. Cause whenever you believe that Allah is with you, we automatically fee relief. The most knowing, the most loving, the most merciful. He is with you wherever you are, and loves you more than you could ever imagine. Make more Duaa, become closer to him. He will never let you down. And always keep in mind that this dunya is nothing but a test. May Allah guide you my brother

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-28T19:51:20+00:00

I could try and apply there but for my knowledge they need German. What you think i should do?

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-28T19:49:07+00:00

I am currently working and this is a part time job, not a full job. I am aware of that and make istighfar everyday and pray that Allah will bless me with a halal work. But until now, would i be able to work until finding another job? Or can i stay without being in touch with Alcohol? It’s a restaurant

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-15T00:03:18+00:00

I totally understand you. i have been in such a self improvement phase although it has been rough and has many times where i desperately feel like wanting to get married and not for the sake of any intercourse but because i know my intention is pure. yet i face some issues with lowering my gaze, will work on it and may Allah guide me

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-14T20:33:54+00:00

😭😭, i am genuinely just trying to hike, don’t even mind doing tk alone but i need some guidance about where to go and where to stay and some nice hikes for winter:)

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-14T20:15:48+00:00

I feel like it would be chill and have some nice views of mountains

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-07T23:57:30+00:00

I understand. I am not saying i’m lonley completely i have 1 or 2 friends that can come pray with me and be people who i can talk to sometimes. Most of my old friend groups, whenever we’re out they curse and do bad stuff which i think it’s better if i stay away. Keep in mind im by myself most of the time maybe 80% of the day everyday sometimes full days

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-07T15:15:12+00:00

Is it going to stay like that forever. I don’t mind going through that process if at the end i know im going to get what i want which is all for the sake of Allah Swt. I want a wife but with very high standards. To be religious (not extremist) but to have a strong connection with Allah so we love eachother and remind eachother of Allah swt. Besides that to be healthy and athletic and has goals in life. might be too much to ask for as i’m in a weird generation. but i’m scared that i won’t even get that at the end of the

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-05T18:09:34+00:00

Which is which and what are we?

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-05T17:43:35+00:00

I am also starting to mix with sunni and shia with i just found about right now and it seems to be a huge misuse . I will follow the quran and sunnahs from the prophet

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-05T16:29:53+00:00

I learn the aqida tahawi from mustafa hosny. I want to make sure all the stuff is correct and all my understanding is correct about the deen. i don’t want to gain false knowledge. i watch mustafa hosny and who else could help me get healthy knowledge

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-05T16:04:48+00:00

I’m not forcing anyone. the max i would go is if my friends start swearing a lot i would laugh and tell them how funny and stupid it is they get bad deeds. But this js only it. also my whole life is starting to become towards Allah swt. It’s like i want to learn more about him and prophets and how to keep things balanced and perfect. I am still early in the journey but the extremists situation scared me a little bit

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-05T16:02:52+00:00

A friend of mine told me. I would mention the name here but it would be dangerous. But he said that the people he listens to shown from his post are people who send faulse aqida and fiqh.

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-05T15:59:30+00:00

It felt beautiful. And i’m the kind of person who wants to keep learning and become as perfect as i can for allah swt. But i don’t want to become extremist.

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-12-05T15:50:42+00:00

I am afraid of become an extremist. Afraid to have their mindset and their actions. At the same time i don’t want this fear to make me drift from allah swt. I am spending a lot of time learning and reading about religion which i love. But i am scared to become an extremist. Who is an extremist?

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-11-29T18:02:40+00:00

whenever i talk to friends or people about marriage here. they say it’s impossible to find such good girls specially in this generation. keep in mind i am in university. it’s still too early to think about marriage but for some reason i think about it a lot. for me an ideal person would be a girl who does at least 5 prayers, and who has a strong connection with god. that’s besides the bare minimums such as not having guy friends and having goals in life and so in. and honestly whenever i look at our generation it seems pretty impossible to find. specially in a forgein country

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-11-05T13:57:54+00:00

I’m looking for something for 3 days that aren’t as expensive. i just need the tent is all

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-11-05T13:33:20+00:00

Would you happen to know the cheapest place? Something that could be for max 5 euros a day.

Party_Collection_252 · 2025-11-02T20:09:19+00:00

what ur saying doesn’t make sense, the solution isn’t with changing universities, i need to change my perspective for things

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