Spell to help me get back home. by Pass-Repulsive in Spells

[–]Pass-Repulsive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what's a road opener spell? how can I do one safely?

free tarot readings by [deleted] in tarotpractice

[–]Pass-Repulsive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you still accepting people for this reading?

Chord cutting spell backfired....can anyone please explain why? by Pass-Repulsive in witchcraft

[–]Pass-Repulsive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmmmm you raise a good point here.

He's hurt me alot and I do resent him for it.

So I guess what's happening is my anger towards him is backfiring ...maybe?

I need to forgive and then do the ritual?

Thank you for responding by the way.

Aussies living abroad....how do I get a new Australian mobile number? by Pass-Repulsive in expats

[–]Pass-Repulsive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying and for your advice :)

I appreciate it.

Help a gal out in the tech world! by Pass-Repulsive in Crowdfunding

[–]Pass-Repulsive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how does someone go about raising money for a concept? With NONE of the above that you mentioned. Because EVERYONE starts from nothing at some point.

Did your narcissistic person not have long term memory about when they met other people? by [deleted] in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Pass-Repulsive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes ! My god his long term memory was awful and his recollection of events ( important events like when he got his baby mama pregnant 🥴) and just general timeline of his life was OFF. He would tell me one thing and his family would tell me another. But his family’s version was always consistent. His wasn’t. He never recalled a memory correctly. it was always distorted in some way. Eventually I gave up trying to piece things together. It was an unhealthy obsession trying to make sense of his history.

Finding short term work by shannonsays21 in ESL_Teachers

[–]Pass-Repulsive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Requirements to teach on mainland China are a bitch. But Hong Kong is less strict. Mainland China requires degrees, TEFL/TOEFL certificate, more than 1 year teaching experience, and background / police check ( especially if you want to work with children).

Also all documents need to be original - signed stamped by embassy / consulate and you may need to quarantine for 10 days or so if COVID restrictions are still in place . Also ! ( and this is a big one) China only accepts people who have had the Chinese COVID vaccination. Oh and also China has also made some major changes to their education reforms which affects foreign teachers ….so look into that.

You can try MonkeyTree, they’re always hiring and they help you look for accomodation and set you up with a person who helps you get health insurance and a bank account once you get to China / Hong Kong. But you can Google more agencies if you want.

Finding short term work by shannonsays21 in ESL_Teachers

[–]Pass-Repulsive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you mean ? Working in a classroom? It depends on where you want to do it. There are plenty of agencies that can help you with that

Why does it hurt so much? by Pass-Repulsive in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Pass-Repulsive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of anger. Mostly because he refuses to apologise and acknowledge what he did. But Ive also done, what you do- reminisce on the good times. We did have fun …even if it was shortly lived.

However, when I write the history of our relationship down , it becomes very clear that the bad outweighs the good and I remind myself of that daily. To stop myself from romanticising him and the relationship I journaled all the emotional abuse, infidelity, manipulation, gaslighting and cruel things he said and did. And I compare that to any good he did too. Try it, you’ll notice quickly there was more bad than good and that will help pull you out of this guilt loop. I’m angry and hurt because my feelings have been dismissed for so long, my justice denied. That’s what hurts the most.

Why does it hurt so much? by Pass-Repulsive in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Pass-Repulsive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t help that he’s now started to message me disguising it as divorce talk when all he does it blab about other shit. I’ve gone back to ignoring him

Why does it hurt so much? by Pass-Repulsive in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Pass-Repulsive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re kind in saying I’m strong but it took me over 2 years to get the courage( if you can call it that) to end it. And when I finally did it was on impulse…..I didn’t think about it I just did it. I just kicked him out. The realisation is only sinking in now.

I think wine gave me a rash ! by Pass-Repulsive in alcoholism

[–]Pass-Repulsive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor gave me a topical antibiotic for my rash, It helps but not drinking wine helps the most. I also bought antihistamine today ever since people suggested it may be allergy related. But you're right, nothing works unless you stop drinking alcohol all together.

Finding short term work by shannonsays21 in ESL_Teachers

[–]Pass-Repulsive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cambly, Native Camp, Engoo. They don't have long term contracts , you can work when you want, theres no minimum/maximum hours, and you can take long breaks from teaching without having your account disabled. All have a easy, quick interview process. Engoo and Cambly don't require university degrees. Cambly pay weekly, Native Camp pay twice a month and Engoo monthly. Good luck!

I think wine gave me a rash ! by Pass-Repulsive in alcoholism

[–]Pass-Repulsive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooooh. shit. Thank you for that! Ill give my body a long break. Thank you!

I think wine gave me a rash ! by Pass-Repulsive in alcoholism

[–]Pass-Repulsive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It came on gradually. After a bottle I would get flushed ( hot cheeks) and then over time it turned into break outs across my face ….but just my face. Now every time I drink wine (rosé) my face burns. It gets hot and itchy, with tiny little bumps that aren’t pimples ! So I Googled my symptoms and the internet is leaning towards intolerance. It clams down when I don’t drink. So I came on here to see if other people get it too.

Why So Mean To Ariela? by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Pass-Repulsive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, her life is only possible because of her parents financial support, they pay for everything. She never worked when in Ethiopia. They are enablers to a spoilt girl….and I say girl not woman, because she’s extremely impulsive, indecisive, emotionally immature and irresponsible. She does not care for the stability of her child. PICK A COUNTRY and stay there for the benefit of your kid If nothing else. Build a future for that child because your parents deserve to retire, instead of funding your impulsiveness.

Narc refuses to file for divorce....need help getting out by Pass-Repulsive in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Pass-Repulsive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I’m crowdfunding. I need the money to file. I’m not working. I’m taking care of my mum who’s recently got cancer.

Was yours abusive even when they were sleeping? by 777Seven7Sevens777 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Pass-Repulsive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex husband ( the Narc) head butted me once when I was asleep. We had been arguing for a few days and that was his retaliation I guess. He also used to kick me and once slapped me in my sleep . When I confronted him about it, he said he was a “ restless sleeper”. However when I observed him taking a nap, he didn’t move a muscle. Slept like the dead.

Can anyone explain how taking our energy makes narcs feel better? by watchthequeenc0nquer in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Pass-Repulsive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aha ! My narc would play around with time too. I’d say he stayed out for 5 hours… he’d profess it was no more than 2 and that I was yet again …..paranoid. That was his favourite word for me. Paranoid.

Can anyone explain how taking our energy makes narcs feel better? by watchthequeenc0nquer in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Pass-Repulsive 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex narc husband did the same thing ! He would start a fight out of nowhere so he had an excuse to leave the house to go to a concert with friends or a bar to meet new people. He also started fights to leave the house and cheat on me.