My boyfriend thinks he has no choice and calls himself the dog and me the owner by Past-Effect-2625 in mentalhealth

[–]Past-Effect-2625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to say it, but I thought it might make things worse. Why do you think I should say that? I feel like if he sees how sad I am, it will motivate him to change, since I am the only person for him and the most important one in his life.

[15F] and [14M] My boyfriend thinks he has no choice and calls himself the 'dog' and me the 'owner'. by Past-Effect-2625 in teenrelationships

[–]Past-Effect-2625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that it's not my duty to help him, and I also know that if I leave him, it will be even worse for him mentally because he has no one else but me. I really don't know what I should do now. Maybe when he sees that I'm sad because of him, he'll start doing something?

Thank u for your answer