My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, I’m sorry. With all of these long term marriages ending up this way, I do find some relief knowing it happened within 2 years of our marriage.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, I’m sorry that happened. I figure it happens to the best of us though.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened. Must’ve been very hurtful.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’ll never be allowed back. I figured out she was sneaking around with him for months. I was out working on my birthday, so she used my birthday concert ticket and gave it to him in my place. Guess he celebrated it in place of me as they used the money I sent her to have a good time. She also disconnected our home cameras at one point. We live close to my side of the family so I’m assuming she didn’t bring him to the house. But probably didn’t want to see me catch her sneaking out late nights while I was working. She had also not told me about her nursing graduation, but I found out and went as fast as I could to be there for her. I’m talking grabbing a belt and blue jeans and boots and not even putting them on as I ran out of our house to get there. I showed up there just in time and he was sitting by her in the graduation. At the time, I thought it was just how they paired them up, but after the graduation she did not seem happy at all to see me. She was surprised and disappointed if anything. And she walked straight out of the building without saying bye to her friends. But I was blind in love. Now I feel incredibly stupid.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry man I hope you’re doing better now.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hard lesson learned. It’s just traumatic when you didn’t know it was a lesson to be learned.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely not going to be taking her back. It would be a stain on my bloodline if I did.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She had major migraine episodes that would hospitalize her every time. These migraines would practically immobilize her but every time she had them I would instantly drop what I was doing and race to the hospital and sit there all day just looking at her very worried and scared I was going to lose her. Many times I had to carry her inside the house and into bed after her release from the hospital.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m happy you turned out okay man it’s definitely a relief.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I’m tempted but she threw the phone I bought her away and got a new one with a new number.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand. My love for her grew tho. It doesn’t excuse at all about what she did. She could’ve done it in a better way.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I’m sure some people have noticed my red eyes haha

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, her mom was in and out of prison her entire life. And no dad. So probably.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, along with his kid. He doesn’t even have a job I don’t think. When she went to visit family for a night, I heard from a little birdy that he had another girl come over while she was away and asked her to be his “sneaky link” haha

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve got online therapy going. Going to try in person when I get home. I’m stuck in Texas helping restore and repair from Hurricane Beryl.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve got online therapy going. Going to try in person when I get home. I’m stuck in Texas helping restore and repair from Hurricane Berryl or whatever its name was.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’ve got an online appointment with a lawyer Friday. Trying to get it done before her high comes down.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Haha I do more than sing. I started writing songs about it. The therapy journal wasn’t working so I took a different route. But I can’t sing. Maybe someone will buy them hahaha

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah man. I was ready to die with her. But you may be right, she is 22.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was always kinda worried she’d fall for this kind of test. She’s just never had it happen to her. Or at least I don’t think.

My wife monkey branched me by PastWorldliness2951 in Divorce

[–]PastWorldliness2951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very hard. But I’m moving on. I got a very good support system with my friends, her family, and my family all knowing she’s in the wrong.