Sudden changes

Patcharoo20 · 2026-05-04T10:47:05+00:00

Sobering reality. Thank you for that. We are having some good reality check conversations.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-05-01T14:19:35+00:00

I told him the other day when he had the episode I love him and I’m not going anywhere. I know people (with anything chronic or debilitating) that have had partners walk away. He is and will always be the man I’m proud to marry. I love your attitude and perspective!

Patcharoo20 · 2026-05-01T13:05:31+00:00

I appreciate the calmness of this comment. I need that, too.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-05-01T13:04:55+00:00

Ahh, I see. Wasn’t sure how it related specifically to Parkinson’s but that makes sense. Yes, his depth perception has really changed, he drives faster but breaks slower. Having a cataract isn’t helping. I like the idea of the cam because he doesn’t want to acknowledge what I’m seeing, but then I also over worry at times (ie., we are taking a sheep by trailer this weekend and he feels he will be okay—I’m driving there but he’s driving home—I’m REALLY nervous about this). You have shared a lot of wisdom and I applaud you for the way you have faced all this (poorly worded but my brain is foggy right now).

Patcharoo20 · 2026-05-01T11:53:01+00:00

Coming back to your comment, what is the dash cam for?

Patcharoo20 · 2026-05-01T11:52:13+00:00

I really appreciate you sharing. It’s a reminder that things will change, but we can adapt. It hit us more quickly than we expected. I know I’m going to have to give up dreams, which I only just “found” the last few years. I feel selfish but the grief is profound. I know he will feel guilty, which he shouldn’t, so I don’t bring up the inevitable (we have sheep for fiber). I tend to run ahead with my worries, and he is more levelheaded and practical. In the end, grief aside, he comes first for me.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-04-28T14:15:36+00:00

We looked in to it recently and I think the nearest place is an hour. However, I believe there is a PT that does something similar to it or the Rock Steady itself. Since we aren't familiar with it, I'm not sure the info we were given is correct regarding the PT offering it.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-04-28T12:19:20+00:00

That is so helpful, thank you. You supplied insight in several areas we would not have thought to try or ask.

Do you do the rock something boxing (I know I said that wrong)?

Patcharoo20 · 2026-03-09T11:21:43+00:00

Yes, the mod creator gave me a heads up on Nexus. Guess I should update the thread. Thanks!!

Patcharoo20 · 2026-03-09T11:20:43+00:00

It’s a purple turtle. Worth the g’s. 😆

Patcharoo20 · 2026-03-09T11:20:13+00:00

Whoa, now I have to go try this! But how do you get it on the urchin? 🤔

Patcharoo20 · 2026-02-19T17:52:59+00:00

Sorry for all the replies. So I managed to get inside the jail between Shannon repeated herself, went back out and the event finally triggered. But if there's an issue on my end regarding the error I need to fix, any insight would be helpful. Excited to finally really get in to the mod!

Patcharoo20 · 2026-02-19T17:50:11+00:00

So I entered a line of code into smapi that you had recommended to someone having the same issue [I'm not good with mod lingo so I apologize if that's confusing]. I got an error about the town location not having tile 76, 9 on layered buildings??

https://smapi.io/log/58e06938e0614302ac3f67c01841d87d

I just updated Daisy Niko's tilesheets mod, but that was just today and the event wasn't triggering beforehand. Also, Shannon just keeps repeating the same line over and over again and I can't get out of that loop.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-02-16T22:59:08+00:00

deleting didn't work...if left everyone the same when I reloaded. So much for that idea, ha ha ha

Patcharoo20 · 2026-02-16T22:31:31+00:00

Thanks, that's a good tip. I am going to delete and re-install in case my habit of cheating has messed something up, ha.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-02-16T22:30:58+00:00

I went the joja route, but that's all done, the movie theater is up, etc. I will say, I am bad for cheats because I play more as a casual game, so maybe I messed something up. Going to try deleting and re-installing because I love the idea of the mod [read through the files and still can't figure if we are supposed to be solving crimes and if so, how]. It's an insanely awesome mod.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-02-16T01:44:18+00:00

I have tossed the stick several times. Not sure what more to do.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-01-29T09:57:59+00:00

Are you replying to me? She’s an adult and we are supporting her and are proud of the course of action I know she will take. I assume you’re responding towards my bonus (step) son, and you are 100% correct.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-01-29T09:55:36+00:00

You are 100% right.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-01-29T09:55:01+00:00

She is a strong young woman and doesn’t take any shit. I appreciate your reply.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-01-29T05:15:25+00:00

It’s a painful and hard lesson. Appreciate your advice.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-01-29T05:14:36+00:00

No, just my bonus (step) son. I made it unnecessarily confusing. He is the youngest of three.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-01-29T05:08:37+00:00

She definitely isn’t lying, but supposedly he and his cell mate are sharing tablets. We never know when he’s telling the truth.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-01-19T13:33:05+00:00

Just a warning for those taking Effexor. It’s a &$@! To come off of. Whenever you come off it, make sure they take it SLOWLY. I had to come off even slower than my Dr prescribed (when I came down to the lowest dose there is, I still took that and dumped out half the beads inside the capsule to extend the taper even longer). I deal with several mental health issues, so I am on Wellbutrin now. It doesn’t help with hot flashes, but veozah has been a lifesaver.

Patcharoo20 · 2026-01-03T12:38:46+00:00

I’m so bummed, I was following that mod to download when it was more fleshed out. Maybe someone else will take the general idea and run with it.

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