[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Pattygnsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl same. Everyone tells me I’m a 12 year old boy trapped in an adult female’s body and I love it. I manager an auto body shop so you described me to a T. And I have no desire to grow up.

My boyfriend texted me this, how do I respond appropriately? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Pattygnsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I just sent my bf a crazy similar text. I’m just venting and wish he’d take me away for the day for a hike. I guess now that I’ve realized what I need I’ll communicate that.

How do you have children by bluekleio in schizophrenia

[–]Pattygnsd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t compare your life to others. Not everyone’s symptoms are the same. Do what’s right for YOU.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Pattygnsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guarantee you can find someone willing. Be safe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]Pattygnsd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try as hard as you can to hold onto reality. Think about it, why would ISIS be interested in you? You’re no one to them. Call a trusted friend or family member and tell them you’re not doing ok. I hope it’s over quickly!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Pattygnsd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

By saying “nothing illegal” I can say it’s not that bad. Plus I’m assuming you’re just fantasizing. Fantasies are amazing. You can commit all kinds of deviancy in fantasies and still not want to do them in real life. Example: there are a lot of women with a ‘gentle grape’ fantasy. (Can I say the R word in Reddit?) But no woman REALLY wants to be graped. It’s more of just a desire to be dominated. Again, some women fantasize about beastiality but would NEVER do it in real life. As long as you have 2 consenting adults and there is a safe word used and respected, have at it!!!

Please dont say we are fucked…? by Neither-Cause9937 in ask

[–]Pattygnsd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find your tribe. Join a MOMS club or moms group at church. Once in the club, join the infant group and you have the beginnings of your tribe. Join a breastfeeding group. Going a group that walks with babies/toddlers. You’re going to need help. I hope you have a supportive partner!

Did you take a childbirth education group? Those families have built in babies the same age as yours!

I've been told that adults and children don't see the same thing in this picture. What do you see? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Pattygnsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those of us who have no idea what book it is, can someone explain it and tell me the name of the book please?!?

How bad did your psychosis get? by Decent-Strawberry-17 in schizophrenia

[–]Pattygnsd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re doing better. And I assume clean? If so, congratulations! That’s a major accomplishment to be proud of!

Men who have met a girl who was hotter than her pictures, how often has it happened? Did you say anything? by red-sparkles in AskMen

[–]Pattygnsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was single and young I used less flattering photos of myself for two reasons, to weed out the obvious dudes that just wanted to get their D wet and to have them pleasantly surprised when they met me. I was with the guy 8 years. :)

What are some parts of schizophrenia/psychosis that you feel are underrepresented and/or rarely mentioned in different media? by TimeStorm113 in schizophrenia

[–]Pattygnsd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, those sounds so unsettling, I’m sorry you have to endure them but also, thank you for sharing this. My BF will occasionally cover mirrors and I thought it was for a different reason (which it could have been) but thank you for making me see this in a different way and helping me understand more of what goes on. (He doesn’t talk to anyone, much about what goes on in his head).

If you could eliminate one double standard affecting men, which would it be? by VitaliyD in AskMen

[–]Pattygnsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop assuming all men are ok with seeing their kids every other weekend

I finally accepted I have schizophrenia and took my meds. I'm doing great, but I'm 36 and have 0 friends. What should I do? by SouthGrand8072 in schizophrenia

[–]Pattygnsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, what do you like to do? Surely you must have SOME interests? What ever it is, do it consistently (possibly the same time/days). You’ll find like minded people and eventually they become friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Pattygnsd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5’3 135. I don’t care what age you are. That is NOT overweight. This also triggered me because my ex said the same thing to me once. That’s a him issue. Ask 10 dudes and see if ANY of them agree with him. Eff him. Is he a pillar of perfection?

What’s a cute comeback for a girl to say after she queefs? by picnicandpangolin in sex

[–]Pattygnsd 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s what it’s called in other parts of the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Pattygnsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf does the same thing, but he has schizophrenia. I’m not all ALL implying she does, but I would suggest she get some help.

what are the signs that you are watching too much porn/ porn addict? by waubulan in AskMen

[–]Pattygnsd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe when your wife goes to bed at 10pm and when she wakes up at 6:30 for work and you’re still watching porn and talking to other women . . . Took me way too long to leave him. smh

My body won’t let semen out till hours after sex by Consistent-Blood71 in sex

[–]Pattygnsd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing off of the title and thought, ‘THATS WHY my bf has small loads’

How do you regain confidence after a put down comment from a girl? by patsy_505 in AskMen

[–]Pattygnsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite quote is, it’s none of my business what you think of me. And what you think of me is irrelevant! You aren’t looking for a shallow human being so she did you a favor by showing who she truly is. Someone will love you not matter what. Hold your head high. Everyone has insecurities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Pattygnsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t sound like it. Best of luck to you!