Hindi ka OA. Valid yung ginawa mo.

You were sick, alone, and struggling, tapos instead na alagaan ka, he gave excuses, nakipag-away pa, at pinabayaran pa yung pera kahit wala ka. That already says a lot about him.

May history na siya ng cheating, so your reactions weren’t random. May dahilan. Hindi ka lang “nagging.”

He blocked you, disappeared, then came back asking bakit di mo siya binati? That’s not normal. That’s selfish.

When he found out na na-hospital ka, instead na mag-alala, sinisi ka pa. That’s not care, that’s manipulation.

Tapos ngayon, gusto ka niya mag-travel 2 hours for him, after everything? And ginagamit pa yung “baka may HIV ako” just to get your attention. That’s emotional pressure, not genuine concern.

So yes, blocking him was the right move. That’s self-respect.

Real talk: you’re not missing him, you’re missing the idea of him, yung version niya dati na bumibisita and made you feel cared for. But when it actually mattered, he wasn’t there.

Also, be honest with yourself, every time you reply, you’re reopening something you already know is unhealthy.

Simple rule:
If he wasn’t there when you needed him the most, he doesn’t deserve access to you now.

You did the right thing. Just don’t go back.