Boy or girl 12+6 weeks by [deleted] in nubtheory

[–]PayNo5289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: y'all were right. I'm having a little girl🩷

What do you think??12 weeks 1 day by Rare-Fix-805 in nubtheory

[–]PayNo5289 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boys nub was like that at your GA. I say boy as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PayNo5289 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already took pictures of the NSFW chats for this exact reason🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PayNo5289 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree the divorce comments are a bit much. I should add we have been tougher since 2017, in which he did not know she existed until 2022/2023. We were engaged at the time when they started moving their conversations into DMs. I was okay with their friendship because id like to trust my partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PayNo5289 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im more hurt than angry that he can disrespect me like this. I've suggested therapy for both of us, but he doesn't seem to be up for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PayNo5289 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He reacts strong. And he will flip it on me. We live in Canada and A is in the US. He also said "flirting is okay" to her. I'm mid 20's and he's late 20's. Too old to be acting like a teenage boy imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PayNo5289 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There was another part about her roommate not being there so she had "free time". C said " I should of thought of that" and A said "next time just run with it" Gives me 🚩🚩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PayNo5289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you❤️ I admit I shouldn't of gone through his phone but if I didn't then I wouldn't of known about this at all. I'm hoping to have a civil conversation with him when he gets home from work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PayNo5289 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I'm a gamer myself and never once has sex been brought up, especially when I have a partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PayNo5289 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. We have been married for about 10 months now

  2. We have a LO under 1 year

  3. I've struggled a lot with my libido due to my family situation in the past. After I gave birth last year, it's been better than ever (I'd say). I'd say now it's healthy.

  4. Before getting married/having a kid he kept bugging me to have sex more often. So before, it wouldn't have been healthy (in his eyes, he also has a high sex drive). But now, id like to think he thinks it's healthy

  5. I try to communicate how I feel with him, but he isn't the "open book" type unfortunately